just be yourself in a good way
2006-12-11 04:04:57
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answer #1
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answered by tricksy52002 2
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Popular isn't a look.Last year, I was always very jealous of popular girls because well, they were popular. When I started school this year two of "the populars" were in my classes. I just started talking to them and found out the only reason they were popular is because everyone loves to be around them. I started to become friends and I am very popular now. But if you really want "the popular look" just ask your mom to wait to go back-to-school shopping. For the first two weeks or so see what popular people are wearing (what styles and stores), then go out and buy some things similar but not exactly the same.
2006-12-11 11:50:19
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answer #2
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answered by Anonymous
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Why do you want to be popular? If you have that many folks that only like you because everyone else thinks you are cool it is not worth it. And so many names to remember! If you be yourself. And are just a tad bit insane. You will possibly be popular, or you may have just a few friends. I personally have only a hand full, and I'd not trade any of them for all the cash in the world. It is better to have a few that are actually loyal to you than it is to have many that don't really give a flip if you jump off a cliff.
So I say, "Don't be popular, be yourself."
2006-12-11 04:01:15
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answer #3
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answered by Tsage 2
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Being popular is a big thing for girls. My girls are all popular in school only I think by how they carry themselves and how they treat others. Always saying hi and smiling help no matter what situation you may be in. Don't look too trashy, just enough make-up (not too much), fitting clothes, good posture and manners, and having the right friends. I buy some of my girls clothes at expense stores and then supplement with accessories or clothing from someplace like Gabriel Brothers. What great clothes at a fraction of the price. Most important, especially for girls, be nice to others!
2006-12-11 03:59:56
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answer #4
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answered by Lost in Maryland 4
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You know... to try and look popular is pretty difficult since styles and fads change everyday. And, unless you're extremely wealthy, it's pretty hard to afford the clothes that keep changing. My city, for example, is going through a "punk stage". All the "popular" kids are now listening to punk music and trading in their Abercrombie clothes for band tees and jeans.
What I've found over the years is everybody thinks there is this "standard" for being cool. To me, it's better if you just dress how you're comfortable and do your hair how you want, etc. If the "popular" people don't like it... they don't, that's all there is to it. There will be someone out there, though, that will think you're pretty cool, even if you don't look like the most popular person in the world.
2006-12-11 04:21:51
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answer #5
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answered by Mar 1
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You donot need to look like somebody to be popular. Have the zeal to have all the update information about what is going on around the world. Try to join in converstaion with friends or anybody in a polite and subtle way. Appearance is also important. The most important thing is not butt in when somebody is talking, let him or her finish and give your opinion, try to gain respect from people around you. But keep in mind that too much of blah blah wil irritate people. Complete all this ingredients with a smile on your face. Good luck
2006-12-12 17:57:14
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answer #6
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answered by lucy 1
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It seems people are attracted to confidence, whether they are fake or not. In order to get confident, you need to challenge yourself so that you will learn more about who you are, thus telling you what you can and cannot do. It raises your confidence and lessens your worries. People are attracted to confidence because it shows security. Some who are not confident and insecure might hang onto some who are, following them around like lost puppies. That's what most people think about when they think "popular." Your best bet is to be yourself, challenge yourself, and try to help other people challenge themselves. It really has nothing to do with clothes, music, etc.
2006-12-11 04:07:33
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answer #7
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answered by punchy333 6
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i guess you could say i was part of the popular crowd in middle and high school. its really not all that great. if i talked to someone not a part of the "popular" kids group, they would say things to me like..."i thought you were a ***** because youre so popular" or " i never thought you would talk to me" see all of those things made me feel like crap and even though i was a nice person to everyone i had judgements made on me because of who i hung out with.
2006-12-11 04:31:51
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answer #8
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answered by Anonymous
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being popular is overrated.
its just a way of trying to make everyone the same.
unique is the new popular. be yourself and dont care about how may friends you have or who likes you and who doesnt. it wont matter in the future.
2006-12-11 03:57:56
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answer #9
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answered by jessica_stay 1
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look girl you dont have to be popular look be yourself so many peopple wanna be cool these days and im cool im well Thee Harriett Ansell at high skool people are lucky to even see me im so popular you are what you are ask anyone imn my skool im thee best my mums a million air really trust me she sold are house in spain for 8.1 million pounds and it came throw the post we're rich of course we donate some too but anyway you are what you are (im soooo sorry your not me!!!) not showing off sorry luv ya all XxXxX
2006-12-11 04:01:05
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answered by Anonymous
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Make sure you have good come backs and act like you are the baddest mamma jamma in the land.....and don't wear shorts socks with high water jeans and tennis shoes.lol
2006-12-11 03:59:10
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answer #11
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answered by **BLu Tinkerbell** 4
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