well i had just started me period for the first time in november and last week not the friday we just had but the friday before that i had sex with my bf and i dont know but since then i have been really gasie or however u spell it and every morning i wake up and throw up i have been eating none stop and i was on a diet and ive gained weight so am i pregnant? and if i am what should i do cuz i just turned 14 on december 8 and im just to young?
2006-12-11 03:29:40 · 13 answers · asked by carrie 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Dear God.
I you just started menstruating, your cycle may not be regular yet. Often young girls have erratic periods when they first start. The second period may not start for months. In other words, you may not be pregnant.
However, since you are sexually active, you need to assume that you very well might be pregnant. Take a pregnancy test. Get them from the dollar store if you're broke or go to Planned Parenthood.
In my opinion, a 13-14 year old can't have a child on her own. Your parents can help you raise it if they choose, but children not emotionally, physically, financially, or mentally ready to raise a baby themselves. If you are pregnant--and I pray for your sake, you're not--talk to your parents immediately. Depending on your beliefs, your options include (1) raising it with their help, your boyfriend's help (although don't expect much from him), and his parents help whether they like it or not, (2) abortion, and (3) having the baby and placing it for adoption. Above all else, stay in school. If you decide to parent, check with your school district to see what programs they offer for teen moms.
Hopefully, you're just not cycling regularly and you don't have to make any of these decisions. I'm not going to tell you not to have sex, because what good would it do? If you want to play like an adult though, you need to ACT like an adult . Get on birth control pills. Get them, understand them, and take them correctly every day. Then, make your bf wear a condom, for good measure.
2006-12-11 03:48:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULDN'T BE HAVING SEX AT ALL! You are only 14!! You should be focusing on getting a good education and enjoying what is left of your childhood.
Now, your chances of being pregnant are possible just because you did have sex...but you can't go based on your menstrual cycle because you have just started. Most girls take up to a year before they have a reguar cycle and do not even ovulate every month. You need to talk to your mother or a guidance counselor about this and get some info. If you are going to have sex, you need to be protected. You should always use a condom to prevent STD's but you also need to protect yourself from pregnancy. Get on a birth control pill or something! Don't throw away your future just because you feel a little horny.
You most likely will not start throwing up that soon, and you definately will not have gained any weight yet if it is a pregnancy. It's too early to tell. You will have to wait a couple of weeks and take a pregnancy test....but in the meantime...talk to someone who can get you in to see a doctor or go to you local womens health center....like Planned Parenthood.
Good luck..and sweetheart, please take care of yourself. You have a long bright future ahead of you if you do things right.
2006-12-11 03:38:36 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but the chances say you are.... and as far as what do you do... a better one would be what have you done... this is why sex before you graduate is really not a good plan... trust me, i know what your going through... except for one thing.... I did not consent, so for 9 months i carried the baby of a man I hated, i was scared, confused, and hurt... but after I had her, i gave her to a family who could love and care for her. Shes 2 now, and we haven't seen each other after I handed her over. If a rape victom can have the baby and move on, a girl who chose to have sex should do the same... abortion is murder, that is a living baby in you. However, adoption is an option... call around and find some one who may want the child. Other than that, learn from your mistakes, use a comdomn, or don't do it.
2006-12-11 03:36:39 · answer #3 · answered by cher 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well since you have had a period you aren't too young to actually get pregnant, but you are too young to be having having and raising a child.
I understand that you are just 14 and I am not trying to be hard on you, but if you can't even proof read your question then what makes you think that you should be having sex.
You and your boyfriend need to stop having sex, go together to your local health unit and get information on sex education, and birth control, take a pregnancy test, and attend a few English classes.
I hope for your sake that you are not pregnant, and get your self educated before it is too late
2006-12-11 03:41:31 · answer #4 · answered by yzerswoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is viable that you're pregnant, what you describe might be recognizing (now not remarkable for younger ladies/throughout demanding instances) or, it might be implantation bleeding. The handiest method to realize for certain is to attend till you'll have your subsequent interval. If it does not come, then you're taking a being pregnant experiment. If you don't want to come to be pregnant, please get start manipulate counselling at Planned Parenthood, any ladies's health facility, or out of your mother or university well being core. Using security and caring for your possess well being is side of the accountability of being sexually energetic. You will have to even have an STD screening.
2016-09-03 08:26:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take a pregnancy test! And if you just got your period and are only 14 why are you already having sex? Geeze...don't kids have anything better to do these days? I fear for my sons! It is entirely possible to get pregnant as soon as you get you period. Just too young is right, you shouldn't be having sex, let alone having a baby. So take a test and stop having sex, you're just a kid.
2006-12-11 03:35:40 · answer #6 · answered by lvminole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you could be pregnant. If you are having your period and you are sexually active you can get pregnant. Go to the drugstore and take a pregnancy test. They are very accurate. I hope you are not pregnant, because as you state in your question you are too young. You are also too young to be having sex. Just because you can do something doesn't' mean it is the right thing to do. If you are pregnant, you need to tell your mom right away. She can help you decide what to do about it.
2006-12-11 03:35:23 · answer #7 · answered by kat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The very first thing you should do is go to your Mom. Tell her everything (Mom's are very forgiving) and ask her to take you to the doctor (or clinic) for a pregnancy test and a checkup. If you are pregnant the doctor can give you information on your options. If you aren't pregnant I think the doctor will want to get you started on birth control.
Unprotected sex is very dangerous not just because of the possibility of getting pregnant but also because of sexually transmitted diseases.
Please don't wait.
2006-12-11 03:42:52 · answer #8 · answered by sierra33ok 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing having sex???!! You are way too young! Go take a pregnancy test, hopefully it is negative, and rethink the direction your life is heading in.
I had 2 friends in high school (older than you) who became pregnant. One of them gave the baby up for adoption and was never able to forgive herself; the other kept her baby, dropped out of school to take care of it. The last I saw her she was working at McDonald's, single with 3 kids(from 3 different dads) at the age of 23, and on welfare. Not a very bright future is it?.
ABSTINENCE!!!!!
2006-12-11 03:54:49 · answer #9 · answered by Amy D.R. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More likely nerves than anything. Check out an over the counter pregnancy test or make an appointment with your regular Dr. Whether you are pregnant or not, if you are going to have sex, (not recommended at your age), you should be practicing Safe Sex.
2006-12-11 03:34:59 · answer #10 · answered by TS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋