I have been in a pretty steady relationship with my bf for about 4 years but am waiting for him to pop the question. How do i know when is the right time?
2006-12-11 03:29:11 · 6 answers · asked by Cheesy Stuff 3 in News & Events ➔ Media & Journalism
Obviously timing depends on the individuals. If you think the two of you are ready for marriage then I think you should at least bring up the subject with your boyfriend. I'm not suggesting a proposal just a discussion. Keep in mind a lot of things change when you're married. A good marriage is more than just two people that are really attracted to one another. There's a compatibility issue on many levels. To name a few:
Do you feel your bf is as responsible as you and would you trust him to make legal and medical decisions on your behalf?
Is religion more important to one then the other?
Are you frugal with money and is he a big spender? (many marriages end over money problems)
Do both of you have the same idea of family? (i.e. do you want a lot of kids and maybe he wants one)
I'm not saying a difference in opinions will not make a good marriage but I'm a firm believer in knowing exactly what you're getting into before tying the knot.
2006-12-11 04:24:27 · answer #1 · answered by CA DIVA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was once engaged while I was once 24 and married while I was once 26 Our marriage ceremony colours had been a light peach and chocolate brown We every had our brothers as witnesses (two complete), it was once an overly small marriage ceremony (14 folks had been there adding us and our reverend) Our reception was once held a month after our marriage ceremony, and we didn't have assigned seating, so much folks did not sit down, it was once a cocktail celebration We had a small chocolate cake after which a style of muffins for folks to select, I consider there have been five specific offerings We went to Maui for 2 weeks We bought married in Gleneden Beach, OR, a tiny the city at the coast, simply external of Lincoln City
2016-09-03 08:26:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the both of you arent only in love, but are mature enough to handle the unexpected daily rigors. Also, when the both of you are financially responsible. Two children who usually marry will divorce when they gain wisdom and mature. Love is a frame of mind, however respect is easier to maintain. Which do you think between the two keeps a marriage together?
2006-12-11 03:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
5:00 pm
2006-12-11 04:58:12 · answer #4 · answered by Lorenzo Steed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never.
2006-12-11 03:34:58 · answer #5 · answered by robert m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It comes alone.
When he is convinced.
2006-12-11 03:38:11 · answer #6 · answered by luis XV 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋