i can never orgasm i masturbate and i try but nothing.....help please even a guy cant make me orgasme or climax please help!
2006-12-11 03:08:31 · 12 answers · asked by MB_love 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Its natural for woman to have a hard time with orgasms. First off you really need to relax. A long hard day at work can make it harder to just put things out of your mind. But i really think that in order to receive an orgasm from a man you need to figure out how to have your own. Try exploring different things that help you to relax, take a nice long bath, pamper yourself, anything to get rid of stress. Then find something that turns you on, a book, a movie, a toy, a thought. Once you can learn how to make yourself have an orgasm then you have won half the battle. Its one thing to feel comfortable with yourself, but you have to feel comfortable with your partner also. I could never have an orgasm with a man until I meet my fiance. We work for each other and feel completely comfortable with each other. He fulfilled fantasies that i didn't even know that I had. For woman, orgasms are all about relaxation and comfort! Good luck!
2006-12-11 03:38:07 · answer #1 · answered by sexycat_1984 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep trying. You will have to figure out how to bring yourself to climax before most guys can do it for you. Play around, get a toy, watch a video, read a book....you'll get it. It is very rare that a woman can't have an orgasm. Most orgasams are clitoral not internal...remember that and have fun.
2006-12-11 03:14:12 · answer #2 · answered by pelenpuppy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a cushioned bottom chair like an ottoman. Sit spread legged and gradually move your self into it. Think about something that excites you whether it be you with someone or just a couple f'n or anything exciting to you. Take your time until you get to know what it takes to get you goin. The usual/normal (for lack of better term) is a clitoral orgasm. Friction is the key. Try it and enjoy!
2006-12-11 03:46:26 · answer #3 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't actually feel orgasms till I was 23, I had to be "aroused" and it took some time, but a few years later I met the right guy and wham I started having them all the time. patience :)
2006-12-11 03:30:16 · answer #4 · answered by Melby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried being on top? thats how i get off when im having sex...when im on top of the guy. also, dont think about it, just try to feel whats going on down there...but dont think about it or u wont orgasm
2006-12-11 03:11:01 · answer #5 · answered by annie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not all women are able to get to their climax and get an orgasm..but sometimes it takes patience to get there...u cant rush it..but it takes a hard try to get there
2006-12-11 03:11:58 · answer #6 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you need to find out what works for you and what doesn't. Experiment with new things and try out fantasies. I've heard things about pelvic exercises too, maybe try those out. Good luck.
2006-12-11 03:11:27 · answer #7 · answered by BBaller25 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to relax your trying to hard and thinking about it to much.
When you masturbate use loob and relax that way you will be able to let your partner know how you like it........
2006-12-11 03:14:12 · answer #8 · answered by Dharma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe it's better that you can't. my mother never did and she turned out to be a beautiful women in many ways, she had seven children.
2006-12-11 03:14:37 · answer #9 · answered by nobody 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you may not be ready for this sexual activity. Many woman or girls have to wait for someone special to turn up and make them feel comfortable and sexually attractive.
2006-12-11 03:11:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋