My "friends" are arguing and they are putting me in the middle. Friday one of them asked me if the other one was talking about her. Now she is denying it and the other one is believing her. I really didn't care until they started to talk about me. What should I do?
2006-12-11 03:08:05 · 9 answers · asked by Crazy K. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
True friends would never put you in this kind of situation. Seat both of them down and talk to them. Let them both know you do not appreciate being in the middle of their little dispute. Make them understand that it is hurting you and the friendship. And as far as the one who did the asking and then denying, how good of a friend can she be if she can't even own up to what she did. They are both letting you see their true colors. They are showing you what type of people they are. Find yourself some real friends that will support you, have your back through thick and thin, and will be loyal and honest. Good luck.
2006-12-11 03:13:49 · answer #1 · answered by Billie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off u should set both of them straight and let them both know at the same tyme how they r making u feel. Second off let them both know that back stabbing is not the way to go and that nothing will come off it. They should both know how much they mean to one another. They are probably arguing over something or someone stupid. While they are arguing someone or something isnt even thinkin bout them and is having the best tyme of their lives. Let them know that.
2006-12-11 11:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by diamondbowden 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple.... Tell both of them to keep you out of it and duke it out on there own. If anyone of them starts talking about the other, simply tell them to stop.... You are not listening.
2006-12-11 11:11:11 · answer #3 · answered by KellyBelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let it work out its self. Let them cool off. Make sure you don't let it get too bad, or they might become friends and bef.you. Or you could tell them to stop fighting and it bothers you alot.
2006-12-11 11:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by Cassie G <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PUT YOUR FOOT IN SOMEONES MOUTH WHEN THE TRY TO TALK ABOUT EACHOTHER. MAKE THEM FEEL STUPID FOR THE CHILDISH BEHAVIOR.......U BETTER WISE UP BECAUSE THE PERSON IN THE MIDDLE TURNS OUT TO B THE ONE WHO STARTED IT ALL WHEN THE OTHERS WANT TO MAKE UP AND BLAME SOMEONE ELSE I.E. YOU!
2006-12-11 11:13:43 · answer #5 · answered by eldiablo0731 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. Tell them you are friends with both of them and don't want to be involved.
2006-12-11 11:10:35 · answer #6 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell them that if they have a problem with each other they should talk to EACH OTHER not you. it's not fare to stick you in the middle of everything. they should definitly respect you at least that much. if they cherish your friendship they wouldn't do this.
2006-12-11 11:13:48 · answer #7 · answered by freckle face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it completely, no comments either! Plead the 5th!
2006-12-11 11:11:06 · answer #8 · answered by stacey h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to stay out of it and let them sovle their own differnces.let them know they both your friend and you not picking sides
2006-12-11 11:34:05 · answer #9 · answered by lizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋