I'm a guy, but I have stuffed bras and wornt hem without telling my family, I would get a sex change, but I'm only 14, and if I did, I'm afraid that my friends would reject me, becaause I would be a lesbian, and my parents might be unhappy with me, so I was wonder ing if I should tell my parents,and get a sex change or not, provide a reason i you like.
2006-12-11 02:57:00 · 6 answers · asked by jurassicmunchie 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think you might wanna wait a little longer because your so young--but if this is who you really are then just be yourself and forget about the others who down you--trust me it took years for me to feel ok w/myself and now I'm a very contented person- PEACE :)
2006-12-11 03:11:53 · answer #1 · answered by Art 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its ok to do what you feel, however, at 14 your body is still throwing lots of homones about in its ever growing into a man stage.... this can go on into your late teens, so how you feel right now may not be how you feel next year...
If you dont think your parents would understand how you feel, maybe a friend or some one at your school would... either way you need to find some one you trust to talk about this (maybe a buddy on your yahoo list? - but dont give them any of your personal info, like your location, cell phone number etc) A sex change is a huge step and alot of pain... put that to the back of your mind for now
Hope that helps
2006-12-11 03:12:08 · answer #2 · answered by matty01253 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think u should wait for that stuff till u can afford it on your own. The operations are really, really, really expensive. So save up the money. Also get some therapy to see if thats what u would truly want in the future. Most doctors who do those operations requrie psyc evauration in the first place.
2006-12-11 04:08:50 · answer #3 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are 14 and you think your a girl...
he/she...or is it she she...
I'm straight, I'm 34.
I was messed up in the head by someone right around the age you are now, if you know what I mean.
I wonder if someone has ben screwing with you or if you are just like that on your own.
I never felt like that before.
I was confused for a little while about my preferecne, but then actually I knew my whole life I wanted girls/ women...and say wo- men!!!
As I got older, and knew for sure what I wanted Isent someone running, maybe for his life, as he was trying to push himself on me.
I have my power!!!
It bugs me to hear about young adolescents, like yourself, who are so confused.
Many (in the gay community) would just tell you , go for it.
Do you believe in God?
It seems likely not I suppose...
Well may He Bless you, and help you on your JOURNEY OF LIFE.
DJ
2006-12-11 03:22:52 · answer #4 · answered by gemseeker 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No for right now keep your life secret until you are living on your own
2006-12-11 06:26:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seek professional help....not because your crazy but because u r young and you should talk about this with someone that can answer any question that you may have without bias.
2006-12-11 05:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by eldiablo0731 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋