What to I do next?..I have been serve the papers. Do I file myself, or wait til' the court date?
2006-12-11 02:16:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YOU BETTER GET A GOOD LAWYER CAUSE IF YOU MAKE BIG BUCKS SHE'S GONNA GET IT JUST BE PATIENT LET THE LAWYER HANDLE IT !!!! GOOD LUCK !!!
2006-12-11 02:21:43 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥ lou lou ♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should protect yourself in this situation. You have rights as well. As far as the papers, you will need to respond to them probably within 30 days. Your wife can file for divorce and child support and alimony but that is just what she is asking for, it doesn't mean that is what she will get. If you can find a lawyer to advise you in this situation so you know what your rights and you can figure out what you feel would be best for the kids and the situation. A lawyer will really help alleviate some of the fear and worries that come with a divorce. Don't wait until the court date because you need to know what her side is doing. You can find lawyers that pay per visit or you can retain one which usually cost anywhere from $1500- $3000 and up. This is a serious situation and you need to be wise and educated of everything that is going on. You deserve that.
2006-12-11 02:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by Maizy * 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You reported "toddler baby", does your spouse have postpartum melancholy? Is that the project? Why are you wondering about filing for divorce? Get some counseling and some help for her postpartum. As i comprehend it, in case your spouse receives custody for raising your baby and he or she has no earnings then she receives alimony for a couple of minutes till she will artwork. If she is uneducated then the alimony is meant to take delivery of to the lady to get knowledgeable so she will help herself. the money it truly is disbursed by the decide to go back out of your earnings is for the only purpose of raising the youngster so the youngster is in a house and has a room for theirself, good nutrients, clothing, training, clinical care. i'd recommend you stay contained in the abode "till" your criminal specialist tells you to leave. yet by them you and he will have talked out the challenge and also you may comprehend each and each and every of the angles. there is truly no longer something painless about this, ever, or contained in the way ahead for you all, leaving would recommend in problem-free words arguments, continually being pulled into courtroom, both easily one of you being short of money, fussing by the years to be certain your baby, and so on. Then if the youngster has say some clinical or tutorial expenditures and also you may't pay she will carry you lower back in courtroom. it truly is unhappy to say even with the undeniable fact that the attorneys over the years receives a good type of yours and her money. So, stay there and submit to through this. the youngster needs you. in case you are able to say have a room contained in the abode to your self then attempt this. in case you visit an condominium then get an condominium with 2 bedrooms and a couple of baths and stay like unmarrieds once you need to, yet, wrestle for this marriage. i imagine if she earns then there will be no alimony, and if she earns more effective than you (which she will be certain she doesn't till the youngster is eighteen) then she received't get alimony. i imagine it truly is provided that you've been provided the youngster that she would pay you alimony and provided that you weren't employed.
2016-11-25 20:36:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a lawyer on the double. If you don't have the money for one, try Legal Aid. It's better than no lawyer.
2006-12-11 02:18:44 · answer #4 · answered by laurajustice33613 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would contact an attorney unless you agree with everything she has there. If you both agree, most attorneys are willing to let you both sign the papers in front of them, thus splitting the cost, at least in my state. If you are going to fight anything, I would recommend you getting your own attorney, and I would start right now with that. Good Luck.
2006-12-11 02:20:50 · answer #5 · answered by confused angel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just wait but get a lawyer now.
2006-12-11 02:21:11 · answer #6 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a lawyer ( prepaid legal) and they need to answer...
2006-12-11 02:35:34 · answer #7 · answered by aflyladybug4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get yourself a lawyer asap!!!
2006-12-11 02:18:07 · answer #8 · answered by l.rahn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a lawyer - to portect yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-11 02:19:16 · answer #9 · answered by into_thematrix 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋