treatment in the future she is 34 and will be 35 next year i will be 36 i panic that we are to old to have kids and angry we have left it to late do you think we still have a chance
2006-12-11 02:14:51 · 6 answers · asked by BoshBeat 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
No you are not. I'll put you i my prayers to GOD.!!
2006-12-11 07:57:44 · answer #1 · answered by Agentj100 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she she still has a change..but don't forget when your child gets to be 10 or 12 years..are you going to still be young enought to have time for them and enjoy all the things to offer that child cause as you get older..your body slows down and your not much up to doing things with your child as if you were back in your 20's. I know alot people feel waiting is best so they can get enought money and enjoy there life. Having to wait to have enought money never works.. When i was married the first time i had two children and we didn't have hardly any money but i made it..now both my kids are in there 20's and i'm in my 40's..I had time to do things with them as they were growing up. you both really need to talk this over and figure out your age now and how hold you will be down the road and the child age.sometime when a women gets older..her eggs are not as young and not only that the baby may have birth defects as well while in side of her.
I wish you luck
2006-12-11 10:33:51 · answer #2 · answered by Spice M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you still have a chance! I am sorry to hear about your loss. But please, do not give up. It is not over until it is over and age is only a number. I know of so many people, including myself, who opted to wait for financial, educational and military(deployment) reasons. In fact, I am 38 and my husband is 41. We are both in the military, healthy and can out run any 25 year old! SO we are very positive it will happen very soon. And it will for you too. Older parents have a very unique advantage. We are good parents not only because it happened, but because we really wanted it to. And most of us have gotten so much out of our system, we are generally less selfish and more settled. And if you maintain your fitness and health, no one will know you are thirty something unless you tell them! Good luck and keep going for your dream!
2006-12-11 10:22:11 · answer #3 · answered by KAREN B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES...you still have a chance. I've known for women to have a baby as old as 55! I think that's way too old but 35-38 isn't too old. I'm sorry about the miscarriage and I wish you luck in conceiving.
2006-12-11 10:18:17 · answer #4 · answered by buzzbait0u812 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down...you have time! Women routinely conceive into their late 30's and early 40's. If you are panicked and are pushing her, that stress makes conception much less likely. Also remember adoption, biology doesn't make a parent, love does.
2006-12-11 10:19:41 · answer #5 · answered by kherome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People have baby's at that age all the time. Just give it another chance. If all else fails there is adoption. Good luck
2006-12-11 10:17:51 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Always Right 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋