why do white guys all think that at first glance a black girl will be mean to them or not like them?

Question

i work with a white guy and when he first met me he was very stand offish once he got to know me we became very close. i'm actually very shy and was a little uncormfortable with the way he was around me.

for the record its not a race thing he actually told me that it was because he had never spoken to a black girl and thought i would be mean. i'm not usually one to play the race card ever!! i was just wondering thats all.

Answer 1

Hey Mr. X, don't b a hater because you can't find the game to attract ANY woman that doens't invlove instructions as to how to inflate her.....

And to answer the question realistically, there is still some racial tension out there, and coupled with the tesion that can arise between the oppostie sexes anyway, it's just an awkward situation sometimes.
And if the white guy isn't used to black girls, or visa versa, it just causes more of an uneasiness.
Me, personally, I find ALL girls easy to approach and talk with, it's just a matter of being the one to break the ice, make them smile, feel at ease and comfortable......and i am white....married to a BEEEautiful black woman....10 years strong...
Mr. X, sorry to have to mention you again, but you put yourself in the ring bro.....your lack of self confidence allows for your ingnorance to outshine whatever good qualities you have.....

Answer 2

I feel that was just ignorance on his part. Sometimes it has a lot to do with the way their parents raise them, therefore they actually don't know any better. I'm from the North and went to live in Texas for 6 years however I'm back North again. But I could not believe the mentality of some of the people there. There was this tall big strappin Texans, cowboy boots, hats, Southern language, the whole 9 yards and he actually admitted to me that he was raised to never let his skin touch a black person skin because if he did it would rub off on him. He said that it wasn't until he was old enough to go into the service in-which they all took showers together was when he found out the what his mother and father was telling him all of his childhood years was a lie. But he said that he really didn't know and he believed his parents. Then he told me as a black woman that I was gorgeous with a great personality. I just smiled. Hey---what are you gonna say after a big strappin Texan tells you your gorgeous. You just go with the flow! LOL!

PS: Mr. X ---- Just say you don't like black women! Because some of your compodrays do actually eat our black @sses up. You're just a hater!

Also black women aren't they only angry people out here! I've seen some pissed off Jewish, Italian, Asians and Irish women who would put a bullet in your @ss if you piss one them off! I live near NY and these crazy women up here where the stress level is just out of control would plant you quicker then a florist. So please stop the madness about black women being the only evil women on the planet because anyone could get upset and fly off and be any nationality!

Don't believe me-----Turn on Lifetime TV (True Stories) It's always white women and white men plotting to kill each other and these stories are TRUE!

Answer 3

they think counter clockwise in other words if a black man is this mean their women aren' as soft. and u gotta admit anyways that even most black women are very mean, why a will tell u why for most of us black people we were brought up in de hoods where in this hoods white people were hated why they got better jobs and lifestyles than the black man and if a brotha or sista wanted a job no white man would hire most of em for they were scared. now our brothas and sistas are educated since the phrase" sistas been doing they thang ba they own." so to answer ya q maybe they afraid dat you have been soo educated you scare them. tell u de truth once a black man/woman puits they mind to somen' they accomplish. have fun am done. denial is not a river in egypt.

Answer 4

I guess the image that black women give off is one of a b*tch, don't get that confused with being strong, because there is a difference. I work with a couple black girls, their OK, but I can understand why they aren't married. They have the attitude of a d@mn bull.
Just remember being a bigmouth b*tch is different than being a strong women. I consider my wife a strong women, because of things she has gone through in her life and held it together. She has put up with my @ss for too long and she still loves me. She also has the strength to be a good mother. She can walk away from an arguement and still feel like she won it.

Answer 5

He was stereotypical to perceive any black person as mean or having attitude because he never spoke to a black girl so he would not no what to expect**

Answer 6

I'm a white guy and I don't think that way. Must have just been a few guys that you know. People are often suspicious of people that they don't know.

Answer 7

most whites simply think the worste of blacks, and most of them never really give themselves the chance to know us. but for the few that do allow themselves that chance realize we are just like everyone else only a different color. and take it from me, WHITE GUYS REALLY DO LIKE US AND MOST ARE JUST DYING TO BE WITH A BLACK WOMAN but they are too scared of society's scorn.

Answer 8

Don't worry, we're not all like that. I use to date a black girl.

Answer 9

because its stereotypical to perceive any black person as mean or having attitude. just bad american portrayal as usual.

Answer 10

Maybe he had a previous bad experience.