Me and this guy have been talking for about a month now and things got a little out of control the one night now i might be pregnant.he already has a kid but his babys mom wont let him see his daughter and he has a domestics hearing coming up soon.and i told him last night that i might be pregnant and he said he cant do it again meaning have another kid cuz hes having so many problems rite now and i dont know what to do cuz he said hopefully i dont keep it if i am and if i do he said he will be there for me no matter what cuz its his kid and hes not the type of guy to bail out on a kid.But i dont know what to do cuz im only 17 and hes 21 and he lives wit me too so please help!
2006-12-11 01:43:03 · 6 answers · asked by xxrlhoodratxx 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Well it is up to you weither to keep the baby or not.... But i would seriously think about keeping him around he has domestic battery charges pending... ever think maybe that is why he cant see his other child.....
You need to find out for sure first then i would talk to my parents because most parents will listen and help thier children through things like this......
But you just need to relax and not stress over it because it could cause you to be late for your period.. Just let nature take its course... But again think about getting rid of this guy he is no good for you or an unborn baby....he said he hopes you get rid of it think if you want to keep it he may try and do something to you......
I hope it all turns out the way you want and that you get the help you need with this Good Luck and God bless
2006-12-11 06:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"meaning have another kid cuz hes having so many problems rite now"
"hes not the type of guy to bail out on a kid"
Kinda a contradiction don't you think?
This guy is bad news, you shouldn't be living with him, you certainly don't need to be raising a child with him, and what ever you do, DON'T count on him to be there.
Find out for certain if you're pregnant, discuss options with your PARENTS and doctors.
2006-12-11 11:55:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever wonder why his babys mom wont let him see her... now you do, this man is irresponsible. and he lives with you? wow, what is with people.
you get an abortion unless you have the money to raise it. in 4 years you'll be 21 and you wont want anything to do with 17 year olds, and neither should he.
2006-12-11 10:37:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to planned parenthood or get an hpt. if it's negative then you need to be on birth control and he needs to wear condoms because there are worser things out there than getting pregnant. so protect yourself.
2006-12-11 10:08:11 · answer #4 · answered by *~*Jon-Jon's Mommy!!*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say your first step is to get a pregancy test. If it's negative, get on birth control.
2006-12-11 09:55:05 · answer #5 · answered by tabithap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, that's not even legal.
Second of all, if he "can't do it again" why is he gonna keep having unprotected sex.
2006-12-11 17:34:45 · answer #6 · answered by UH-MAN-DUH!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋