I am in love with a good friend from work. We met six months ago and still nothing has happened between us. We've been out a few times to the movies just as friends but not recently cos he has had money problems etc. He is very stubborn in the fact he will not let me help him moneywise or treat him to a drink or anything. But i just feel so much chemistry between us. He is always helping me with so much, he walks me home from work sometimes, he's let me in on his problems and can talk about anything with me, he looks at me like he does like me, you know eye contact, he looks at my mouth while we talk aswell which is meant to be a sign. We are always mucking about and joking together. I just need to know what signs to look for. I really want to say something to him but at the moment it's difficult because of his other problems i don't want to scare him away with this aswell. But at least if i know he has feelings for me too then i will be willing to wait for him till he's ready.
2006-12-11 01:28:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just talk to him but make it clear you want to remain friends . if hes letting you in on private parts of his life then I'd say he likes you . if money is a problem then find cheaper alternatives rent a video and get some popcorn . there is lots of things you can do that don't cost a lot of money .
2006-12-11 01:34:40 · answer #1 · answered by longhairjim33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lifes too short. if you feel like this for someone, bloody go for it girl! you invite him out for a drink or summit and make lots of eye contact with him. flirt with him a little and then ask if hes gunna walk u home. then, kiss him on the cheek when your back at yours, say you really enjoyed his company and see what happens. the worst he can do is turn you down. if that happens, stay mates with him. he sounds like a real genuine guy, expressing his problems, buying you drinks and all that. hope this helps! j xxx
2006-12-11 01:33:16 · answer #2 · answered by mysterious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know, you dont need money to go out!!! there should be a park or something where you guys could go to walk around or the beach, waterfront or a place like that!!! Hes probably a litle shy and not sure of your feelings to him!!! Look for body language! or if he says something funny just like wrap your arm around his and say, "your hilarious"! he'll come out the shell soon
2006-12-11 01:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by *(¯`ξŔ1₭4´¯) Ł4 (¯`₮Ř4V1ξ§4´¯)* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many if not most guys have learned not to date people from where they work, no matter what attraction there may be between them. If you are attracted to him, you may have to make the first move because of the coworker issue.
2006-12-11 01:32:46 · answer #4 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just offer gestures initially in light hearted manner.If hepespons well & good,if not let it go away as joke.
2006-12-11 01:31:10 · answer #5 · answered by mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah,i think dat he likes you.just tell him your feelings when it is at the right time.
2006-12-11 01:37:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on Lorriane, he does not
2006-12-11 01:30:11 · answer #7 · answered by Wael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him it won't hurt if you don't you'll always wonder if you did
2006-12-11 01:39:38 · answer #8 · answered by tyler d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's kinda difficult but i thin that he really really likes you
2006-12-11 01:31:20 · answer #9 · answered by squee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋