Long story short . . . over the weekend, my pregnant sister in law convinced me to give her a "fetal massage," which essentially involves alternatively messaging the plump belly and the buttocks. I felt a little strange doing this, but it really was not anything sexual. I also did not yet tel my wife, but I am going to, because, again, I don;t think this was wrong. Any thoughts?
2006-12-11 01:18:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
There is nothing wrong with massaging the buttocks of a pregnant woman. I rather enjoy it myself. If it were not sexual then it is OK.
2006-12-11 05:36:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why didn't your sister-in-law get her husband to do this? It's a little personal to be asking a brother-in-law to perform a fetal massage. Sexual or not, you need to tell your wife, then never let it happen again. It's just weird.
2006-12-11 01:28:17 · answer #2 · answered by Shannon L - Gavin's Mommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm ... how pregnant are we talking? Why couldn't HER husband do it?
If she's like 40 weeks pregnant and in pain ... and her husband's not coming home for a month ... and her doctor said it would be good for her ... then maybe I could see it.
But that's not what this sounds like. Her BUTT? No, honey. That has nothing to do with the baby. Either you did that for your own enjoyment, or she conned you into doing it for her enjoyment.
You need to tell your wife. Massaging her stomach MIGHT be okay if the situation is similar to what I described. But NOT her behind. I would murder my husband if he 'massaged' another woman's butt, pregnant or not.
So yeah, tell her that her sister conned you into grabbing her ***. She needs to know. It was wrong.
2006-12-11 01:37:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I thin your wife is going to be REALLY MAD!!! but the best thing is to tell and let your wife know that your telling because you think you didn´t do anything wrong. But i would like to know why your sister in law did not ask her husband to do it???? and it is the first tie i´ve heard about fetal massage.
2006-12-11 01:25:09 · answer #4 · answered by Ariel F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that could be really uncomfortable and a little inappropriate. Ok, maybe there was nothing sexual about it but I don't think you should do it again. See, it involves a certain level of intimacy with someone. Her husband is the one thats suppose to be providing services like that. Yeah, you should tell your wife.
2006-12-11 01:23:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you were a true massage therapist then this wouldn't be an issue, nor would your wife have any reason to be upset. If you're aspiring to be one then your wife needs to get over it and so do you...otherwise you're being highly unprofessional!
2006-12-11 02:17:08 · answer #6 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? Yes it was wrong. You are married man. You had no business massaging her pregnant belly or butt. Yes, tell your wife and be prepared for her to get really angry with you and her w*h*o*r*e sister.
2006-12-11 01:27:30 · answer #7 · answered by Kokolicious06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does not sound like anything I would want my brother-in-law doing to me! It felt wrong because it was wrong!
2006-12-11 02:20:15 · answer #8 · answered by aintgivinup79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a little weird to me...... Better tell the wife regardless because if she finds out from someone other than you..... she'll probably rip your you-know-what off.
2006-12-11 01:22:22 · answer #9 · answered by CJP 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not tell your wife even though you feel nothing is wrong with it she will trust me if my husband did that he'd be out the door.
2006-12-11 02:22:12 · answer #10 · answered by fluttergirl2004 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋