i really dont know what to do do you help me please..........
2006-12-11 01:16:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If your even considering this you arent a very good friend. You weer best friends with this girl..is she a ho (i doubt that she is because you didnt say that she was) if you were a true friend you would be defending her, not trying to up you social level.
2006-12-11 01:19:32 · answer #1 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you should. Your new friend could be jealous of the fact that you already have a best friend. But I wouldn't drop the old friend because they said that she is a hoe.
How does your old friend treat you is she still nice to you if so why should you drop her, because of hearsay. If you are worried and concerned about the what your new friend is saying about your old friend. Have a word with the old friend and tell her that you have heard blah blah, but you don't believe it but you just wanted her to know.
Bottom line is if your new friend was truly a friend she wouldn't be trying to mess up your friendship with your older friend
2006-12-11 01:22:19 · answer #2 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would. And any time anyone says anything about another of your friends, i would get rid of that friend too. Who wants to have friends who everyone talks about. You should only have superficial, meaningless friendships. You know, the kind that are easy to walk out on. That way, you never have to be loyal to a friend, or stick with them during hard times, or actually care about them. I think you should just let all of your other friends decide what is right for you to believe, and do. Then you can grow up to be a shallow, friendless person. Fun!
Long Live Jambi
2006-12-11 01:21:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL, LETS SEE: NO! IM NOT TRY'N TO BE SMART BUT IF THE NEW BEST FRIEND IS DOWNING THE OLD ONE, SHE ANT A TRUE FRIEND TO YOU, AND YOU ANT A TRUE FRIEND IF YOU LEAVE THERE OTHER ONE BEHIND B/C SHE WAS THERE FIRST... AND THE WAY I SEE IT IS : YOU KNOW HER BETTER THAN ANYONE, YOU SHOULD DEFEND HER... THATS WHAT TRUE FRIENDS DO.. ID NEVER TURN MY BACK ON A TRUE FRIEND... THE ONE THAT ARE THERE NOW WILL ALWAYS BE THERE FOR YOU REGARDLESS OF WHAT YOU DO OR HOW YOU ARE.. EVEN IF SHE IS OR WAS A HOE, YOU NEED TO BE THERE FOR HER, YOU COULD BE THE FRIEND THAT COULD HELP HER CHANGE HER WAYS IF SHE IS HOEING AROUND.. I HAVE PLENTY OF FRIENDS AND THEY ARE ALL DIFFRENT IN MANY WAYS.... AND A FEW OF THEM ARE HOEING AROUND, BUT I LOVE THEM ANYWAY AND I'LL STAND BESIDE THEM IF SOMEONE DOWNS THEM B/C THATS THE WAY THEY WANNA LIVE THEIR LIVES, ITS NOT MY PLACE OR ANYONE ELSE'S TO CHOOSE HOW THEY ILVE IT... ID DITCH THE NEW FRIEND IF SHE CANT EXCEPT THE OLD ONE... OR..... ID TELL HER TO DEAL WITH IT B/C SHE IS YOUR FRIEND REGARDLESS, THINK ABOUT WHO WAS THERE B-4 THE NEW ONE... ONCE A FRIEND ALWAYS A FRIEND.....
2006-12-11 01:31:32 · answer #4 · answered by JANICE R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should decide that within your self! do you like your best friend, how many years have you spent together, and how many secrets do you share with each other! how many times was she there by your side when you needed her! and how many times was she happy when you were! Think about that! you have made her a best friend over time not from day one, and your new friend can be your new best friend, and your old friend can be your old best friend! and dont let people decide for you who is good and who is not! GOOD LUCk and Marry X-mas
2006-12-11 01:19:50 · answer #5 · answered by mwa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really cause it doesn't matter what people says about other may not be always true.so if u really love ur old bf u with stay by her side and defend her side,but if u r looking for a new friend that u can thrust and not to have a bad name,then u should go for the new bestfriend.which is meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
2006-12-12 00:57:36 · answer #6 · answered by ~DaNcE pRo~ TaKeN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely comprehend why to procure so upset! this challenge sounds soo complicated! yet i imagine your pal replaced into purely attempting to make it a lot less annoying for the both easily one of you at the same time as she made the timetable, yet I nevertheless see why it made you indignant. And her boyfriend sounds like a jerk, i recommend heavily? He were given mad because she reported you've been impressive?! wow... yet anyhow, if she kept telling you to say whats on your concepts then she shouldnt are starting to be so mad once you probably did. i imagine you need to purely attempt to stay faraway from her at the same time as shes at the same time with her boyfriend. It sounds like plenty a lot less drama at the same time as hes lengthy gone! As for the wrestle at the same time with her boyfriend, i'd purely attempt to be the bigger individual and stroll away. Hes no longer worth a at the same time as! and that i dont comprehend your pal or her boyfriend, yet I dont see how all people will be with someone like that for lengthy, so with any luck they'll split sometime quickly and he or she'll see purely what she replaced into lacking at the same time as she replaced into faraway from her purely right pal! good luck and that i wish issues get more effective with you adult males!
2016-11-25 20:33:19 · answer #7 · answered by axtell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you drop her? Not many people have old+best friend.
Best friends stand above all relations because they stands with you when nobody stands with you.
2006-12-11 01:31:22 · answer #8 · answered by javed q 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a ***** and dont deserve your best friend.. if you were a real friend you wouldnt listen to nasty rumours and talk about casually "dropping" your supposed old best friend. your friend needs to drop you
2006-12-11 01:19:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No cause if you guys were really best friends you guys would always be at each others side!!!!!!!1
2006-12-11 01:18:56 · answer #10 · answered by ~Me~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋