my friend who is eighteen years old has met a lad of a similar age off a chat room and have been mailing eachother since and planning to meet soon.
however last night she got a phone call from this lads house off a girl saying that she was his girlfriend and she lived with him.
when we confronted the lad he said she was his ex and she was a psycho who was still in love with him.
my friend believes him, but im unsure to be honest.
what do you guys think?
2006-12-11 01:14:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he says, she was at his house as she causes trouble shouting at him in the street, so he lets her in (which to me is a lame excuse)
2006-12-11 01:31:57 · update #1
If that was me in that situation id believe my mates but your mate seem to choose him over you, if you told her what u think is going on then theres not much else you can do. If he can do it to the girl hes living with then he can do it to anyone. thats the excuse that all guys use that its the other one thats chasing after them but its a load of bull! tell you mate to sort it out because soon it'l be her runing to you for sympathy when u knew all along that it was going to happen!!
2006-12-11 03:34:27 · answer #1 · answered by X 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay clear of this situation. She just met the guy and should not trust him so much so soon. Even if he is telling the truth why would she want to get involved with a guy who has a crazy ex still after him? It just sounds like too much trouble.
Why would she be at his house? How did she get her number?
Why bother trying to figure all of this out for a guy she doesn't really know? There are plenty more out there.
Tell her to be careful, good luck.
After that last line I would say he is a liar. Would you let someone into your house because they were shooting at you? In no way does that make sense.
2006-12-11 09:16:57 · answer #2 · answered by artimis 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That sounds a little strange. But if I were your friend I'd tell her to be careful and not necessarily meet up with him just yet. Because if he does have a girlfriend then he is a cheat. Also the thing is why would his ex be doing in his house if she was a psycho, if this was the case surely he wouldn't want her anywhere near him.
Tell your friend this and see what she has to say, needless to say turn to get her to look in someone else's direction because this guy is not good for her
2006-12-11 09:26:48 · answer #3 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like a really good lie to me. As a woman, who has made the phone call to other woman in my man's life, i guarentee you I was not crazy nor am i now. Tell your friend to run while she can. Even if he is telling the truth, he has a stalker and she doesnt need to get in the middle of that..
2006-12-11 09:20:59 · answer #4 · answered by Real 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meeting anyone off the internet is dangerous. I wouldnt recomment your friend meeting this so called "friend" from teh chat room, especially now that he is more than likely lying to you about his ex/girlfriend. Maybe he is trying to cheat on her, who knows, all I know is that this is dangerous and I wouldnt recomment what your friend is doing.
2006-12-11 09:24:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a little fishy to me. If she was an ex then what in the world was she doing at his house.
2006-12-11 09:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah this is a very bad excuse
if i were you i wolud tell your friend to be carefulhe may be planning something
if she meets him make sure you are there and that people know where you are
also i think that he is cheating on her with other people on the net she may not be the first or last
2006-12-11 15:32:00 · answer #7 · answered by college stud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all part of growing up learning from your mistakes, if your friend believes him then thats fine its her choice.
I had a partner like that, when we finished he tortured me for a year, maybe just maybe hes telling the truth.
Innocent until proven guilty.
2006-12-11 10:43:27 · answer #8 · answered by jasper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would edge my bet on him being the psycho.He will say anything just to get her to fall for him.Then he will disregard her just as he does his girlfriend. Oh and I agree with you he is a cheat and a dirty rat.But sadly your friend might just have to find out for herself. Im sorry.
2006-12-11 14:34:52 · answer #9 · answered by cinders 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with holly M what was she doing at his house? I know my ex never comes to my house . It sounds very fishy to me check it out when in doubt. good luck and god bless and happy holidays.
2006-12-11 09:18:04 · answer #10 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋