My partner has been cheating on me for what seems to be some time. I recently had his baby about 3weeks ago and found out he's been and still is cheating just yesterday with both of the sexes. I'm hurt and ashamed. So far I've managed to act as if I still don't know but 24hours later it's eating me up inside :(
2006-12-11 01:08:14 · 10 answers · asked by annoymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like a Maury episode...My ex...(my son's father)...well he lied to me about being bi-sexual. When it all hit the fan...I gave him two choices-go get help because he said 'he didn't want to be that way', or get out because I couldn't take it anymore. He chose to leave~That ultimatum was the best decision I ever made in my life. It was the hardest time in my life-raising three kids all under the age of 6-alone....but he obviously wanted his freedom-more than he wanted the responsibility and obligations of a family.
The fact is, the longer you wait to get him out of your life-the greater the damage to your self-esteem is going to be. You can't make him change, unless he wants to change. You can tell him how it's going to be~no more cheating etc~for your sake-and the baby's sake-you have to. It's not healthy for you to feel that way and be subjected to the turmoil his cheating is causing within you.
It's going to keep tearing you apart inside-until you make a decision-to live with it, or live without it.
2006-12-11 01:30:00 · answer #1 · answered by Little Jeannie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 11:05:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just end it. He is not good for you or the baby. Tell him what you found out , pack his bags and tell him to leave. Hopefully you have some one that is close to you(mom, Aunt, Friend) that can help to support you in your decision. Focus on keeping your baby happy and healthy as well as yourself. If you have been experiencing post-pardom systems then make sure you are seeing a doctor on a regular basis to let them know. This is a crappy time of year for you to go through this but the sooner you end it the better off you and your child will be. Remember you can do better then him.It should be him that is ashamed not you, you did nothing wrong.
p.s. get some tests done to make sure that he didn't pass anything on to you or your baby.
2006-12-11 01:27:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen its not easy for you to leave your baby daddy cuz , hello you just had a child!!!! but enough is enough!!! let him know that you are not someone that deserves to be messed with!!! even though its hard, tell him that your gone!!! I know for a fact that hell come back!!!! but make sure you draw a line!!! dont get stepped on!
oh and if u leave him, then CHILD SUPPORT BABY!!!
2006-12-11 02:08:03 · answer #4 · answered by *(¯`ξŔ1₭4´¯) Ł4 (¯`₮Ř4V1ξ§4´¯)* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your case, you dont need advice on how to end it. Just end it! You have no reason to feel bad about it; he has shown no consideration for you and the baby at all.
If you wish, read this article: http://www.relationship-affairs.com/ending-a-relationship.html
http://www.relationship-affairs.com/Unfaithfulness
2006-12-11 01:12:21 · answer #5 · answered by Sofia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a lawyer, get full custody and child support, and move on.
Get that baby and yourself to the doctor to see if you have any sexually transmitted diseases. That baby's daddy is obviously a sick individual.
Merry Christmas. :)
2006-12-11 01:14:35 · answer #6 · answered by Gasman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what advice to give you. But you are definitely in my prayers. Take good care!
2006-12-11 01:32:01 · answer #7 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got to confront him but with mercy and grace.
2006-12-11 02:10:43 · answer #8 · answered by AH HA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that it is over.()
2006-12-11 01:10:54 · answer #9 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move while he is gone out............
2006-12-11 02:46:17 · answer #10 · answered by unnoneuser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋