my ex husband left me because he chose the girl to be with her.he promised to get us for petition to live in states with our kids.but i never knew that he living with the girl and i found out recently that they have kids too.but they are over now coz he found out the girl cheated on him.i didnt know about this.now another one with him,his mother told me everything.honestly,i waited him for 6yrs because he left me when we were young to migrate in states and when he came back he ask me to marry him and still i love him thats why we got married,sorry im not good in english but i hope you will understand me,i just want to get comfort for your advices.i trusted him so much and i loved him,but it so sad that after all the sacrifices i gave to him for waiting this what i got.i still feel the pain of what he done to me for cheating me ad chose the girls.he wants to comeback but i told him its over,its hard to say gudbye to the one you truly love but i have to do it coz i dont want to get hurt
2006-12-11 00:58:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Bail out now!!! I've seen this before, these wonderful illegal immigrants come to the U.S. to make money for their family back home....BUT, while here, they set up house with another woman and start another family and the whole time tell both women a bunch of B.S.
2006-12-11 01:03:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you did was the right thing. The way he treated you even though you showed that you love him! Why should you live with him even after he showed you the proof that he doesn't love you by leaving you to marry another woman? Do you feel weak? Then be strong and kick his a** if he comes to meet you again. He left the woman b'coz she cheated on him. Also, isn't that what he did to you? I can't beleive that even after all that he did to you, you're still doubtful in leaving him!
He may cheat on you again and again.
I know that there's someone else out there who'll love you better.
So he's not the one for you, girl. You can live without him.
Good luck.
2006-12-11 01:14:23 · answer #2 · answered by Dixie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a complicated situation and as bad as I feel I can't tell you to just leave. I know you love him but he sure isn't acting like he loves you. The best thing I think you can do is go to counseling or a support group of some kind and then they could help you sort this mess out. Sometimes there are even churches that can council you for free. Good luck to you.
2006-12-11 01:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have great english!!!!
Okay, he has already hurt you. YOu have to really stop and think is it him you miss, or what you had hoped he would be?...My guess is it is what you wanted him to be that you miss, not what he really is.
You say you love him, from what I read, I don't see what there is there to love, honey do yorself a favor and move on. Get your power back and close the door on this one, you can do better than this guy/ There are many fish in the sea (meaning there are a whole lot of guys out there)...it's hard I know, but let him go and think about YOU,,,,,,good luck.
2006-12-11 01:10:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think of you could think of roughly your newborn. you could not have had a newborn in the experience that your relationship wasn't good. you could communicate with a minimum of one yet another and make some judgements approximately your relationship and your newborn. it could basically be solved if the two considered one of you're interior the same place. the place did you notice this entire new international of those that care and choose you to be chuffed? you're dreaming. Marriage isn't a mattress of roses and relaxing. that is dedication and complicated artwork for 2 human beings to stay at the same time for years. that is provide and take. you could artwork out your issues, in case you the two dedicate to it. You of course ,at one time ,had no concern kissing him.
2016-10-18 02:43:51 · answer #5 · answered by binnu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This so called "MAN" is not worthy of your love. You deserve much better and there will be a nice man out there for you. It is so wrong what he has done to you and he wasted 6 years of your life, so every-time you are tempted to go back to him think of what he was doing with those girls while you were waiting for this sh** of a man. Don't waste one more minute of your life thinking about him. Go out there and make him feel sorry for what he has done to you and he will feel it when you finally settle down with the love of your life. He is out there and you will find him.
2006-12-11 01:18:23 · answer #6 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're doing the righ thing by not going with him. It's really messed up he left the other girl for cheating when he did the same thing to you. No matter what remember this, he is bad for you and your child.
2006-12-11 01:04:52 · answer #7 · answered by twogingerkisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl move on you deserve better, trust me you can still find someone who loves you no matter what your age is and if you have kids as well. you just have to start looking.
2006-12-11 01:13:55 · answer #8 · answered by lonelyheart 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are doing the right thing by not taking him back. Stay strong for yourslef and your kids, it will get easier.
2006-12-11 01:03:50 · answer #9 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LIKE I HAVE BEEN STATING MANY TIMES... 16X WITH DIFFERNT HEADINGS!....YOU HAVE BEEN POSTING THIS MANY TIMES FOR MANY WEEKS. I AM SO SORRY YOU ARE IN SO MUCH PAIN. NOW IS THE TIME TO SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP. ONE WHO SPECIALIZES IN WOMAN'S ISSUES AND FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS. YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN DO NOT DESERVE TO BE TREATED AS SUCH. PLEASE TRY TO HAVE A HAPPY AND HEALTHY HOLIDAY FOR YOUR CHILDREN'S SAKE. BE STRONG!!! PEACE TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!
2006-12-12 04:03:42 · answer #10 · answered by brxny2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋