My friend and her boyfriend keep getting in fits and I try and tell her to just dump him and move on but she won't listen and it is getting really annoying and they fight over stupid stuff.
2006-12-11 00:39:05 · 11 answers · asked by Kennedy F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
As long as there is no abuse or cheating involved, let your friend make her own decisions about her boyfriend. This way she will learn from her mistakes.
2006-12-11 00:55:39 · answer #1 · answered by Julie F 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well people don't see what is happening because they are on the inside. But since you are on the outside looking in you have better insight than she does. If she won't listen now it will only be a matter of time that she will. Don't push her all the time because she might just think that you are jealous.(I don't know why people think that way but they do) She will eventually be strong and do what she needs to. Just be there for her.
2006-12-11 08:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by MZ.NEZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter what you say to your friend she is going to do what she wants. I would be there to support her and help her realize that that relationship isn't good for her. Just be careful because you don't want her to think that you are bashing him all the time. Be there and make keep a look out that the fights don't get physical.
Good Luck!
2006-12-11 08:45:25 · answer #3 · answered by EVY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are under the age of 18, then it isn't going to last. Most likely, you need to pull her away from this guy and have a talk. Most young people don't realize how much effort goes into a relationship. Try asking him why he fights with her, and see if you could intervene.
2006-12-11 08:42:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look dear all you can do is suggest. if they are fighting over petty stuff, its their problem not yours. when your friend gets irritated and annoyed by this, she will dump her bf when the time comes. so just leave your friend alone for now for this
2006-12-11 09:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also went thougth that with one of my best friend and she also wouldn't listen I can tell to try ONE more time to help her with her problems and then if she doesn't listen it's time for tough love
2006-12-11 08:44:56 · answer #6 · answered by kiya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet is to let her find out on her own. I know it sounds painful, but experiance is the best teacher. You can talk till youre blue in the face, but if she is in love with him, she's not going to want to break up.
2006-12-11 08:42:04 · answer #7 · answered by BlkBeauty24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It honestly doesnt have anything to do with you. they obviously love eachother, otherwise they wouldnt still be together. all couples have their fites but its nothin to break up over, and its your friends decision she has to make it, not you. but it helps to be a good friend and its obvious that u do care about her, but try not to interfere...otherwise ur friendship wont last
2006-12-11 09:00:02 · answer #8 · answered by Chilli W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I mean it is completely her decisions what path she wants to take. What you can do is just to advise her and try to wake her up, not force her. Hopefully soon she will realize what she wants in life..
2006-12-11 08:42:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
best thing you can do is to stay out of it.sooner or later she will realize by herself, so don't put your hands in a place they don't belong.
2006-12-11 08:50:41 · answer #10 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋