let's just say..... I'm the girl...
2006-12-11 00:33:26 · 16 answers · asked by jamie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
a guy might take it the wrong way so ad something to your sentence that lets him know you guys are just friends and nothing more
2006-12-11 00:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by baller tom #1 chick magnet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what you mean by I love you? Of COURSE you can tell you friend you love them as long as you know in which context you are saying that word. If is within friendship then that is fine and as long as he understand you are saying ' I love yah' without all the attachments.
However if you are saying 'I love you' then you have to sit with him and tell him seriously. If that is how you feel then its better to be honest with him otherwise you will be constantly asking yourself shall i tell him/or your feelings will confuse you even more.
If you are close good friends you have to weigh up whether it will destroy your friendship and make things 'weird' between you. If he is mature and doesn't feel the same then you should be friends even after that. But note that things will never quite be the same between you if he doesn't feel the same and that is something you have to ask yourself whether you can risk.
2006-12-11 00:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be awkward because you would be crossing the friendship line. But on the other hand he might be felling the same way. I wouldn't rush into anything.
It would also depend how long you guys have been friends.
And would you be willing to loose a friendship if he doesn't feel the same way about you.
Good Luck!
2006-12-11 00:39:43 · answer #3 · answered by EVY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have 2 feelings at the same time ..
1. loss of a friend
2. gain of a girlfriend ..
i think i'll mostly be dissapointed because if i'm friend with a girl that means i didn't choose her for sex (which means i'm not attracted to her as a sex partner) ...
so at the end, generally speaking, i loose a good friend and get a not-attractive girlfriend .. not so nice ..
2006-12-11 00:40:16 · answer #4 · answered by Zettag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter who the girl is...what matters is how the guy feels about her, and we don't know that (not mind readers)...the guy might dig it, he might be embarrassed by it, he might be turned off by it...
Only way to find out is to tell him...but I'd wait until I had a pretty good idea that he felt some definite positive emotion toward me too...why set yourself up for rejection for no reason?
2006-12-11 00:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i take it u r in love with ur guy friend.. his response depends on how he feels.. i definitely would not tell him that you love him.. thats way too intense and he may run away and avoid you. just say you like him more than as a friend but that if he doesnt feel the same way, you dont want what you have told him to ruin your friendship
2006-12-11 00:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats sometimes a bad thing but it can also be a good thing because i am still friends with my ex-boyfriend and i tell him that i love him all the time sometimes he says it back some times he grunts about it just wait for the right time when your alone and in the right sort of mood or even just hint it its up to you
2006-12-11 01:29:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly sugar...i might say ...he has no concept what true love is. that's a 4 letter be conscious that's tossed around like not something. human beings say it and haven't any concept what it ability or what it feels prefer to truly be in love. There are diff kinds of affection additionally. i like my acquaintances. i like my relatives. and that i like the affection of my existence. All diff...dont purely toss around the understanding like i became into not something
2016-10-18 02:43:36 · answer #8 · answered by binnu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, never do it, it will makes him feels that he owns u and in the case u didnt get together he will always mock u and u will lose him both as a friends and as a boyfriend let him makes the fist move
2006-12-11 00:59:59 · answer #9 · answered by i like it like that 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends.. but surprise of course.
if the guy likes you, he will be glad to hear it and be happy
if he doest, well.. maybe he will just say 'lets be friends'
2006-12-11 00:59:37 · answer #10 · answered by labs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋