my ex girlfriend useed to tell me not to bother using a comdom now i dont see her any more i do not not if i got her prengnet
2006-12-11 00:00:31 · 29 answers · asked by christopherfarrow3 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Do you realize that every time you and that girl had sex without using a condom, you were having sex with everyone else she had sex with? That is a very dangerous situation. You definitely need to be tested for various diseases, and please don't wait to have it done! Always use a condom unless you are in a committed relationship (like married) and want to have children. If you did get her pregnant, then you will be paying child support for at least the next 18 years of your life. WOW! Good luck, I hope you are disease and child free.
2006-12-11 00:28:46 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly you should always use a condom until you're in an established relationship where the woman is using an alternative form of contraception to ensure an unplanned pregnancy doesn't occur. Also, you need to protect yourself against sexually transmitted diseases.
Secondly, if you had got her pregnant then I'm sure there are ways for her to track you down to tell you, especially if she wants maintenance. However, if you're that concerned then contact her direct and just ask!
A lesson learnt for next time!
2006-12-11 08:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by JACQUI S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude are you stupid? yes pregnancy is defenitly a possiblity when you have unprotected sex. What about STDS? Do you know Aids is the 3rd deadliest desease in the world. Maybe she ran off because she has something and didnt want to tell you. If a chick tells you not to wear a condom then I dont care how hot and bothered you are dont give the goods up period!!!! Is it worth you getting some nasty or deadly desease or having a baby before your even of legal age to vote. Its not worth it next time put a condom on and if she says no well dont give it up to protect yourself!!!!
2006-12-11 11:47:22 · answer #3 · answered by onehotmama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should've used a comdom for all you know you could have caught a STI get yourself checked out at a clinic and get in contact with your ex and make sure she is ok
2006-12-11 08:03:54 · answer #4 · answered by townhouse 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you want to be safe during sex, it is best to wear a condom at all times. Who cares if a girl asks you to not wear a condom during sex, you need to think for yourself. It is true that you need to check up on her, see if she's okay, pregnant or not. Also, in the meantime ask her to take a pregnancy test to calm your worries. When a girl asks you to not use a condom, nine times out of ten, she is either to trap you or is just trying to get pregnant.
2006-12-11 09:10:20 · answer #5 · answered by spyder90tishuez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she didnt want to use a condom and you did maybe you shouldnt of. As for her maybe being pregnant, iddf she is I would hope you would take care of ya'll child cause that baby need both parents in it's life. Trust me , I know.
2006-12-11 08:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by --; cookie. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to start with, you should have said that u either use a condom or no sex, then u would not be in this situation.
but whats done is done.
if she is pregnant then you would have heard off her if she wanted u to have anything to do with it.
if you are still worried, casually call her to 'catch up' n see if she says anything, or, call her mate to see how she is.
next time use a condom!!
2006-12-11 08:53:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya know...even if she said not to worry about a condom, you still need to protect yourself!
how many people has she said that to??? you don't really know for sure, so you were not only leaving things open for pregnancy, but you weren't protecting YOURSELF from STDs.
so, track her down and see how she is. if she isn't pregnant and you don't have an STD, then consider yourself lucky and remember to wrap it up from now on!
take care.
2006-12-11 08:10:05 · answer #8 · answered by joey322 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly if she didn't want you to use a condom you shouldn't have had sex with her
not only could you have caught something you may have gotten her pregnant like you say there is a possibility thay she wanted you to get her pregnant
just read your 360 profile and at 46 you should know better
2006-12-11 08:04:03 · answer #9 · answered by harveysmummy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
U R Damned!! Either you get infected or you have to pay maintenance and be bogged down for the rest of your life!!!
2006-12-11 12:12:36 · answer #10 · answered by Creamy Baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋