my life and job sucks....i feel lonely since I started working in a call centre environment where I am required to work on shifts...because of that I am no longer have the time to meet up people and old friends due to scheduling conflicts. So most of the time I am alone.....eat alone, watch movies alone...shop alone..is this normal? is there something wrong with me? How can I fix this and have my life back?
2006-12-10 23:50:28 · 14 answers · asked by ultrasonix53 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well... maybe you are feeling the a mouse on a wheel. work, work work,, rest, no one to play with. Have you thought of changing your job? maybe is it not right for you. I don't think there is anything wrong with you persay, but you should be careful that your lifestyle is not compromising you - on things such as eating, exercising, socialising. Even too may quicktv dinners can bring on depression and meeting up with friends is a very important part of our psycho-social development.
good luck and take care.
2006-12-10 23:52:29 · answer #1 · answered by AJ... Australia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. something is wrong.. I think it's not your job to blame because I know some people who has the same job as you do... Well I think you have a problem in confidence... The trick is to have the courage and confidence to talk to someone without offending... Start there and before you know it, you'll make more friends than how much money you earn from that call center... Hope this helps....
2006-12-11 00:45:15 · answer #2 · answered by jamie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it somewhat is okay to spend time by myself each and every so often, yet from time to time you like different individuals on your existence to talk to, do events with, or merely to make you smile once you're disenchanted. have you ever tried speaking to a expert approximately this? you're depressed or have social tension? Or...in case you do no longer think of that's the case, perhaps you merely have not met the ideal suited style of individuals. attempt searching for out pals that take excitement in doing a similar issues you do. as an occasion, in case you prefer to observe video clips on your room, discover different action picture buffs so which you're able to do this with them. Or, in case you're into analyzing, perhaps connect a e book club? That way, you will not could desire to alter your way of existence, yet you have the choice to incorporate them each and every so often as properly.
2016-12-30 06:18:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could suggest you an attempt at trying to befriend your boss and working mates. Learning new things and taking on new hobbies and stuff may help you as well. Just make sure not to act as though you're actually needy.
2006-12-12 00:37:22 · answer #4 · answered by tearaway_weft 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answer your own question.
Treat people the way you want to be treated.
Hope you and your family have a great Christmas.
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2006-12-11 00:07:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is there any other kind of work that you want to do that woughd allow you to hangout more??
also,do your friends (the old ones)not like you anymore???
if thats the case than they really aren't friends any ways.
try joining a club or something.....or an email group...
2006-12-11 01:01:36 · answer #6 · answered by follow the yellow brick road:P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,it seems to me that I have the same experience as u ,cause I am working busy everyday ,actually I have lots of friends but I got no time talking with them ...Let's find the way to solve both of our questions,that's the piont.
2006-12-10 23:57:39 · answer #7 · answered by Edward Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about find another job for a start.
If you can't, you can try to find a friend in your working place.
2006-12-10 23:59:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though you are busy, you still can keep in touch with some of your olf friends through phone or mail.
2006-12-11 14:37:59 · answer #9 · answered by AH HA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out there babe!!!!! Start meeting NEW people.Hook up with old friends.Go out to night clubs,or nice social events.Have fun,and good luck!:)
2006-12-11 00:58:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋