What would you do if?

Question

your husbands best friends boyfriend ,called his cell phone and started saying stuff like , I told your husband to stop calling my girl , I told him let me call your house and talk to your woman etc, etc.What you do if something like this happened to you ?Would you start thinking somethings not right or this guy is crazy? My husband and his best friend Keisha have been friends for 16 years.

Answer 1

You need to talk to your husband...

Answer 2

Your husband and Keisha have obviously included you in the friendship...this is how it works in a perfect world. Men and women married or not should be able to have friends of both sexes but there is a line that when crossed changes the friendship.

Your husband and Keisha have perhaps not included him in their friendship which will make him feel left out. He may be a real territorial type and never get behind the friendship. Some men think all men are like them...and want to have sex not friendship with every woman they encounter.

He has said your husband and Keisha talk on the phone...are you aware of these conversations or are they done specifically when you are not in ear shot? I would have a sit down with all four of you and discuss what is and is not acceptable for this friendship...maybe you can help them because you understand.

If your husband is phoning her daily without your knowledge maybe he is having a problem with her having a boyfriend. Some times the friend is really a "what if person" and as long as they are single everything is OK but introduce a rival and the balance is upset. Talk with your husband about how often he is talking to her and see if he can use some self control and not speak to her as often.

The cell phone has changed phone etiquette and the new etiquette has not really been defined.

Answer 3

It could be that Keisha's boyfriend is crazy jealous and his call is nonsense or it could be more than that. I can tell you that my wife was calling an "old friend" for some time, but I came to find out more was happening than just friendly chatter. I don't know what the case is in your situation, but in either scenario you husband should chill out because at the very least he could be dealing with someone who may take the action to prevent him from calling his girlfriend.

Answer 4

i think keisha either has a point or he is just being stupid.talk 2 ur husband about it and find out how what is really going on.most importantly find out if he really is calling the girl in question and tell him 2 put an end 2 it if he is.if u r close 2 keisha u cud talk 2 him also and find out what is goin on from him.

Answer 5

Ask your husband what's going on. If he tells you it's nothing, then take his word for it until shown proof otherwise - after all, he is YOUR husband. There's nothing worse than letting the seeds of suspicion be sown in what is a good marriage.

So, your husband has been friends with woman for 16 years. Ultimately, if she wanted him then she would have him - noone (man or woman) can be kept anywhere they don't want to be...

(Sounds like her boyfriend needs to get a grip though...)

Answer 6

Don't get crazy,just talk to your husband and ask him if he could not call her for a while so that there won't be a problem.If he has a problem with that may you do want to ask him if there is anything there that you should know about.

Answer 7

I would think Keisha got herself involved with one crazy jealous bastard for a boyfriend.

Answer 8

sounds like her boyfriend is very jealous and insecure.
i wouldn't go accusing your husband, but i would take it as a warning sign. perhaps just be a little aware of what's going on. talk to him openly, without blame, about the phone calls.

Answer 9

Well you never know maybe you should speak with him it might be a misunderstanding but its better to clear the air rather then driving yourself crazy just dwelling on it.

Answer 10

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