my b/f's fam wants me to go to there house for christmas eve and i said i would go sometime but know my fam has made plans to go to my grandmas house and they want me to go and my grandma usually doesnt want to do x-mas at her house what should i do and i want to make everybody happy
2006-12-10 23:24:43 · 6 answers · asked by yours truly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
go to grandma's house with family
ask him if he wants to go with you
and if you have time you can go over his house too
if not go the next day
how long will your grandma be around, time goes by fast
do the family thing
I say that's whats right
and if he is a good guy, he will totally understand....I would understand..he should too.............
I sure wish my grand parents were alive..I would be there for sure...................................
good luck
smile
2006-12-11 10:00:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay,
Tell your parents that it is better if you ask your grandma to visit your house for Christmas, since you mentioned she doesn't like the celebration to be at her house.
Then, ask your boyfriend's family to come along. Course, with your parents' permission.
Good Luck
2006-12-11 07:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
c,u r really lucky to go ur b/f's home i think u should go in both homes like,in the morning at 8 o clock go and tell ur b/f's family that u r going ur grandma's house and ask ur parents that if they can leave 11 o clock.make ur b/f happy if u really love him cuz love comes only once!well b happy.BEST OF LUCK!!
2006-12-11 07:33:28 · answer #3 · answered by breezyair4ever 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you simply have to tell your bf this and see how he'll react, especially if he really wanted u thr...and if he understands then go to ur grandma's, ur bf and his familiy will obviously be dissapointed but most of the times familys will be even more upset, especially ur grandma, and they would take it harder then ur bf if he's an understanding guy....good luck :)
2006-12-11 07:33:35 · answer #4 · answered by dex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to both for a while. Go to Grandmas's earlier, surely she'll go to bed earlier? Then go to ya fella's place.
2006-12-11 07:28:43 · answer #5 · answered by C R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, split it and share like millions of us do every year.
2006-12-11 07:48:24 · answer #6 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋