i'm of 20, and can't decide tht i should have a sex at this age or not..
2006-12-10 22:49:38 · 15 answers · asked by Gaurav 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It doesn't matter what age. Well I take that back you should wait until you are into you twenties. What really matters is love. The woman up at the top said "What for marriage". Problem to that answer is that you can't get married. So I think you should wait until you find someone you really love, and trust at the same time.
2006-12-11 01:32:45 · answer #1 · answered by jessecolten 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's the real question? Age doesn't matter. Married is better. Married for a couple of years and damned sure he's not going anywhere is best. Why?
Because once you start having sex, unless you're very lucky, you'll get pregnant. Mistakes happen all the time with BC. Next thing you know, he is out the window faster than santa at christmas AM...and you're knocked up having to make the choice to keep the baby, adopt him/her out, or kill it.
(btw, since you're male - I'll flip it for you. The woman gets knocked up and you have no choice in the matter. She kills your kid or you're forced to pay financially for it or she gives your kid away. As a man you have NO choice in the matter. None at all.)
NOT GOOD...
2006-12-10 22:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by cnith 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your value system. Only you can really decide if your ready to have sex. You need to ask yourself what you believe and what your willing to accept as consequences. Do you want a commitment, love, etc. Casual sex is a gamble these days that a lot of people don't seem to think about. You might win big but there are just as many big losers. What is/does it mean/worth for you to have sex? Just my opinion though.
2006-12-10 23:04:11 · answer #3 · answered by mistress_lilas 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
18. before that its just mutual masturbation instead of growing a brain. Of course if you screw a proffessor or compassionate intelligent man over 40 i'd say 16....you might get some knowledge.
2006-12-10 22:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by b-overit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After marriage.If you don't do so you'll commit fornication. "What! Do YOU not know that unrighteous persons will not inherit God’s kingdom? Do not be misled. Neither FORNICATORS, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men kept for unnatural purposes, nor men who lie with men, nor thieves, nor greedy persons, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit God’s kingdom." - 2Corinthians 6:9,10
Now do what you conscious says.I'll hope you'll make the right decision.
2006-12-10 23:11:13 · answer #5 · answered by Alex 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whenever it feels comfortable. I know there are religious beliefes dealing with marriage and such. However,There is not a guidline or anything for this. If it happens it is just going to happen. When you do though, please be safe :)
2006-12-10 23:34:34 · answer #6 · answered by punxsyparty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
these days any where from 14-20 crazy kids
2006-12-10 22:54:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2006-12-10 23:48:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
hmmm i dont know umm i think the best age to do it 20years old up hehehe
2006-12-10 22:53:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my opinion is that you should be ready to do it. you should be confident that you could face the consequences. but the decision lies within you. what others will say shouldn't matter.
2006-12-11 00:13:46 · answer #10 · answered by juandc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋