he has to work alot this month,so dont get to see him,he had a day of yesterday and spent it getting pissed with his kids!?I cant be botherd talking when he phones,and i say ive got no credit when he asks why i dont text,ive felt this way for about 3 months.
2006-12-10 21:55:33 · 19 answers · asked by karen. 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hes not married hes divorced[for 7 years] we both have kids from other relationships and i dont want more.hes political and im spiritual,he sleeps on his brothers couch[homeless]he has a job but no home.so we can only meet in pub so its all goten boring.id feel terible dumping him before xmas.
2006-12-10 22:56:28 · update #1
Karen, you are lucky to know yourself. You obviously seem the limitations of your current relationship, so my advise is to quickly buzz out of it and make your life make a turn for the better. Good luck.
2006-12-10 23:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi:
To start with Variety is the spice of Life but routine is the essence! What I read you saying is you have heaps of routine but no spice. At a guess it was your differences that brought you together in the first place. The issue now is that you have not built up some overlapping common interests. Obviously we all become comfortable in relationships and sometimes my gender makes the mistake of taking it for granted. As a first step work out what will bring the spice back. Then talk with your man telling him what you need. Don't go into it stressed or angry, the rish if you do is creating a huge emotional tangle. Discuss with him where you are going and then decide together. If he want s to keep you then he needs to change some of the routine. IF he doesn't then you at least can part friends. In the end whatever happens will be your decision, so make sure that in a year or two you can look back and say this was the right way to go.
2006-12-10 22:16:24 · answer #2 · answered by The Guru 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's obvious that whatever has kept u together for 6 years is definately gone. It's hurtful to split with someone at anytime, but u can't hang on to something that just isn't there because there is a holiday coming up. I honestly don't think he will be shocked if u have been avoiding him lately anyhow. He may feel the same way otherwise don't u think he would have spent his one day off with u?? I think it would be worse in a way to spend Christmas with him and then leave. If meeting in a pub is the height of your relationship now then really how serious and comitted is he? Don't hang on to someone when u don't love them and definately don't see a future with them, do what is right and move on.
2006-12-11 01:18:15 · answer #3 · answered by Amber 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 20:24:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him about what is goign on and how he feels about all of this. I wouldnt want to throw a 6 year relationship away just because its getting a little hard. find out how he feels and if he feels the same way. if you love him do you want to throw that away and if you dont why are you with him? after 6 years how could you not even be engaged and him have kids?
2006-12-10 22:06:54 · answer #5 · answered by Daze 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Leave him. Why would you put yourself in so much unhappiness just so he will be happy. People think that they will stay together for the kids but when they see how unhappy you are and see you fighting that ends up hurting them more than a divorce ever will.
2006-12-10 22:01:04 · answer #6 · answered by NEED HELP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously have grown apart due to a lack of daily effort on your relationship. You can either choose to focus on it and grow together, or not be bothered and leave the situation. No matter which way you go it will take work and effort. You can't become happy and stay happy without constantly working at it.
2006-12-10 21:59:43 · answer #7 · answered by Jon O 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think you already know the answer, but feel guilty about it. it's hard to admire someone you don't respect, and it doesn't sound like you admire him or what he does. further, i don't think you feel he's a positive additive to your life, so why hang on?
2006-12-10 23:17:12 · answer #8 · answered by noodle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it seems that u r dating a married man...if yes then i m sorry but i really dont feel like answering to ppl like u. If no then ....try to tell him ur feelings.
2006-12-10 22:21:34 · answer #9 · answered by richard k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you know the answer to this yourself , its time to move on , good luck
2006-12-10 22:00:58 · answer #10 · answered by nicemanvery 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋