my gf cheated me several times and she wants to prove that she can change but the only problem is i cant trust her anymore but i still love her. please help me.
2006-12-10 20:44:16 · 7 answers · asked by xhari_ng_sablayx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she ain't never going to change.
start cheating on her to make it even so when the time comes you have someone to fall back on
2006-12-10 21:17:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this kind of situation I can GIVE the best advice, but very rarely do I ever TAKE my advice. : ^)
Its simple. If she's cheated on you already then she'll most likely do it again. Plus, you need to ask yourself...is it worth it... being w/ her & having to worry all the time. Its not fair for you. You deserve better. There are so many fish in the sea.
I believe she does love you w/ all her heart, but once a cheater; always a cheater. She might even think that she can change,... but when it boils down to it, her actions will speak louder than words.
If you do stay w/ her. My advice...from a woman's stand point., watch the little things. How she acts, talk, moves, what she smells like if she went out, anything. Trust me...women,... were big on "the little things".
Hope I could help. w/b if you need anymore advice. I'd be happy to give you the insight on how women think. : ^)
Kat
2006-12-10 20:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by Katell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to prove your trustworthy after you do that to your partner, It was not worth it for her to think it out in the first place, and because she cheated on you, the ones she cheats with dont want her, they know they will get the same **** from her. Move on, many many nice, trustworthy women out there. good luck
2006-12-10 21:19:34 · answer #3 · answered by spuds_suds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you write down a few times..? move on.. once is forgiveable, twice is really bad but up-to-you situation , more than that...it doesnt worth your time anymore.
if she loves you, she WONT do it in the first place, hurt you over and over again!! Ask her, what will she feel if YOU keep cheating on her?
I tell you one thing..once the trust is gone, the relationship is out of the window. Trust me on this, you wont be happy anymore.
there are better girls out there who deserve you more...leave her.
2006-12-10 20:52:55 · answer #4 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on to the next page. you will always have doubts, so why should you both be unhappy. next!!!!!
2006-12-10 20:46:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't !! a leopard never changes its spots.
2006-12-10 20:45:35 · answer #6 · answered by admiralawesome2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to this, EVERYBODY DESERVES A SECOND CHANCE!
2006-12-10 21:20:32 · answer #7 · answered by bea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋