Ok well I've seen this girl before at school and she became my cousins friend. My cousin who just had her 18th birthday invited this so called friend. You see I opened the door and I saw her standing in the midst of the crowds and her beauty just radiated from the people around her. I was so embarrassed for staring about her and she smiled at me. We talked during the party, and she said she too also saw me at our school last school year with my cousin. She said I looked snobby because I never smiled but she was glad to know I wasn't like that in person...Well my question is....should I avoid her and just forget the feelings or befriend her and then court her. I can't get her off my mind and personality matches her beauty but I feel like she will never go out with a guy like me...What should I do?
2006-12-10 20:27:30 · 7 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
When I wrote " she'll never like a guy like me" Its because I'm a shy type, I could be social but when it comes to expressing my feelings to a girl, I just loose it. I am sp afriad of being busted and being hurt but at the same time my lack of initiative welcomes other guys to court her, thus loosing my oppurtunity to be with her. This has happened many times I like so many girls but never had the courage to say it to them...
2006-12-10 20:31:02 · update #1
I would go for it if it is there. I mean you will never know if you don't try.
I do believe in Love at First sight and I live in the south and I love to hear dating referred to as courting.
Good luck honey and go get her.
2006-12-10 20:31:13 · answer #1 · answered by Feather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant think negative. It sounds like you both really like each other- theres nothing stopping each of you from hanging out and beginning a relationship. She stood out from the crowd which means alot, she also notices you and is just waiting for you to make you move. Lots of girls love it when the guy makes the first move- it what all of us dream about.
2006-12-11 04:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by bluetinkerbell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude if men never told a woman how they feel because of nerves, we'd never ask anyone out. Go for it, man. Tell her how beautiful she is and tell her you would like to take her out. Once you are out with her, open up and be talkative. And for Heavens sake SMILE!!!
2006-12-11 04:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by Mav 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man, no one ever say the word court anymore!! give it a try and whatever turns out, at least you won't be tossing around in your bed thinking what you might have done to get your lady!
2006-12-11 07:16:49 · answer #4 · answered by Shasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then have the courage now .. be friend to her and tell her how you feel towards her. nobody want to die in a battle without fighting.
2006-12-11 08:21:03 · answer #5 · answered by labs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step by step, inch by inch, go for it. Do not rush and try to keep your feelings undercontrol. Go for it!!!!!
2006-12-11 04:38:54 · answer #6 · answered by grannywinkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how beautiful she was inside and outside.
2006-12-11 04:30:25 · answer #7 · answered by blingding 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋