when girls hit on boyfriend??

Question

i have an absolutely drop dead gorgeous boyfriend who ive been with for 5 years.. he gets along with every1 but there are always those slutss that try flirt with him rrr... ive tried laughing it off becoz i kno he wont leave me coz he finds girls like that nauseating but sometimes they get to me .. any1 been or is in my situation that can suggest any coping mechanisms to dealing with these sti-contaminated, lousy skankass??

even when it's very very obvious that he has no interest in them whatsoever.... does that turn a girl on? And knowing that he has a girlfriend doesn't stop them either...what the hack? I trust my boyfriend, and i don't really feel jealous or threatened or anything, i just think it's bizzare.

Answer 1

start carying around 8 or 9 bricks in your purse, next bit(h that tries to flirt with him should get knocked on their @$$, do that about 8 times and eventually chicks will leave your man alone.

Answer 2

I agree with you, though your BF find them not interesting BUT never take things for granted.

I have a GF who have a similar problem as u and I think she handles the mater very well because a few criteria :-
a) She looks gorgeous herself (and a hv a string of admirers so this keeps her BF on his toes)

b) She is very classy and sexy (not slutty)

c) She never misbehaves

d) She is very intelligent and sometimes when she ask those sluts some intelligent questions, they either cook up some stupid answers or crawl to a corner and bury themselves there. Everyone else end up laughing at them and they will be so embarrassed at the end they will leave.

e) Get the sluts drunk and embarressed themselves

if all dont work, she just tell them off

Hope the above works for you.
Good luck.

Answer 3

here is a totally bizzare idea, totally different than the rest....but why dont you act as if they dont exist, other girls really feel, the ice cold shoulder factor, and eventualy get the message....dont get all touchy feely with him, because that will give him the indication, that you dont trust him.....and he will pull further away from you if you do it. Try my way, if it doesnt work after a few weeks, i promise ill come and throw bricks at them for you....(and my aim isnt that bad)

Answer 4

Cant change the world as it is ? It is a good thing you know your boyfriend, let people keep trying and frustrating themselves on his unresposive behaviour, people like to play a game of cat and mouse, if you care for them then they will stop caring for you. So why dont you just ignore them and save your energies for some other useful purpose. DONT LET IT GET TO YOUR HEAD.

Answer 5

these women do get on my nerves too. I'm an extremely jealous person when it comes to my husband.

one way i deal with this issue is by talking about it with him (not being direct, i go 'that woman was flirting with you, she didn't even care whether i was just there next to you') then he's give me a reassuring answer (Knowing that I'm being jealous) about how much he hates women like that. i think these discussions help his ego and helps me to get over the jealousy too.

Answer 6

My bf is handsome strong and super sweet. I know what you mean. And jealousy is sooo ugly.
Try remembering who he's with. Don't ever give the poor guy a hard time about it .
Stay his best friend.

Good one, Heroshy. the tattooed style would be nice too

Answer 7

The skanks may be getting off watching your reaction. If you trust your HOTT boyfriend like you say, ignore the sluts and see how he gets rid of the extra attention when he should be spending his time with you.

Answer 8

just down play it and dont get all jealous you know he is urs so dont let those girls get to you once in a while kiss his cheek but dont hang on him all night and dont try to chase the girls away they will away go by themselves once they see he not interested in them oh and so far u seem to handling things good so jus dont faze it most of my friends are skanky like that it is jus weird

Answer 9

Tell them straight up..."We are together, and by the way whats the red stain on your pants"...when they look down knee them in the head.

Answer 10

yes, that is simple. instead of getting worked up or jealous, just remember that it is you that he wants and when they do flirt with him, say stuff like "I can see why all these girls flirt with you, because they all see how adorable you are but i'm the lucky one!"