What makes a man go astray after years of marriage??? I seldom ask questions because they deduct 5 points from me!!!!!!!! So Please give me your best answer!!!!!!!! THANKS & MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!!
2006-12-10 18:06:54 · 20 answers · asked by POGI AKO :-) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Only one reason: stupidity.
2006-12-10 18:09:18 · answer #1 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some marriages after a while fizzle out due to many reasons. you run out of things to say, the nagging gets worse, you are under the thumb, the kids grow up no longer needing you 24/7, you get little or no attention from your wife/husband, someone new starts paying an interest in you, you have done everything together and no longer share the same interests/hobbies, the husband/wife take you for granted as they think you are always going to be there, the whining and dining stops. if you dont want to be another statistic for divorce rates then treat them right if the love does fizzle out, start wining and dining like when you first met I'm sure it will bring the magic sparks back. merry crimbo to you to
2006-12-11 00:20:50 · answer #2 · answered by shayney boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a "strayer" I can tell you that it's many things.
Boredom
Little or no sex
Me not trying
Her not trying
My work taking priority over life
However the most important thing is lack of communication. If only we'd talked it would never of happened!
2006-12-10 23:24:23 · answer #3 · answered by David B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lack of self respect, lack of respect for his wife, and a lack of respect for their marriage, and the vows that they took before God and man. it's really sad when this happens. I hope this helps you out. it's my opinion.
Hope you have a Very Merry Christmas and a Wonderful New Year!!!
2006-12-10 18:22:40 · answer #4 · answered by atiana 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been in some long term relationships and in my experience it is usually some perved out girl that starts the thoughts then when she knows you have a steady mate she latches on and wont let go.
2006-12-10 18:12:12 · answer #5 · answered by swami242 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
people change and you're bound to lose interest
the level of commitment and affection you have for that someone will also change
you get bored with the same routine the same life and maybe all you need is some change and excitement
2006-12-10 18:12:11 · answer #6 · answered by India 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is fat, bald and ageing. This is known as a mid-life crisis. He is terrified that his wife will go off him so he gets in there first.
2006-12-10 23:08:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think men wants to liven up their life.. i mean after years of sticking to one woman and being the father et al, he looks for fun and adventure he hasnt had for so long already.. its only the way i look at it.. then, men goes too far of the fun and adventure thing which leads them to break their wives` heart, trust and most of the time the family itself.. its sad, i hope it doesnt happen to me..
2006-12-10 18:25:00 · answer #8 · answered by i cant 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they suddenly realise they are getting older and want to turn the clock back so they turn to a younger person and because their minds are in turmoil they aren't aware they are hurting their former partner
2006-12-13 06:06:51 · answer #9 · answered by srracvuee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignorance/stupidity/grass greener on other side,
the list is endless.
but usually, it's got something to do with feeling inadequate
and a need to prove himself.
he should love his wife cos she is the best thing that is going tto happen to him.
2006-12-10 18:21:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Loss of interest in the partner. Lack of nookie. New hottie at work. Nagging, crying, being bossy, new hottie at work, new hottie at work, new hottie at work, and nagging.
2006-12-10 18:10:58 · answer #11 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋