I'm in high school and I never had any friends throughout my entire life. I'm a random person. Sometimes I talk a lot and sometimes I'm totally quiet. When I talk a lot, I act like a clown, doing lame things and acting stupid to make people laugh. Everyday during lunch period I sit by myself in my school's library. In my school, I feel like I'm the only loner because I see everyone else hanging out. How can I overcome my fear of being called a loser? What should I do with my life?
2006-12-10 18:03:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Come out of that library and face the world! You should not worry about what other people will think of you. Give others a chance to be your friend. You'll never do that by hiding from them. The way you describe yourself tells me you're really a normal person, not a loser at all.
2006-12-10 18:24:57 · answer #1 · answered by out of the grey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 02:29:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to know someone like yourself a few years ago, all I did was talk to them and soon other people started to talk to him and he came out of the shell. now hes just an idiot, but we all like him. long story cut short.. make the first step and talk to people, break the ice as it were, try and join in what ever they are discussing, the odd joke wouldnt go amiss neither.
2006-12-10 18:18:48 · answer #3 · answered by asislife2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop labeling yourself and realize it before you graduate that the majority of people couldn't care less about labeling you. If they did, they aren't that valuable to you to begin with. Be yourself and don't knuckle down under peer pressure. Those people who will label you will barely remember you seven years from now.
2006-12-10 18:07:45 · answer #4 · answered by Wisdom Guru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be your self... who cares if people don't like your personaliyt.... i mean i was like u in high school and i turn out fine.
IN high school i would sit in the library by myself too and i was made fun of in middle school... Don't care about other and when u are out of high school everything will be great
just study hard and don't care about those stupid people.
2006-12-10 18:12:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobody wants to be called a loser.
maybe you have lots of insecurities.. why dont you find a bestfriend whom you can always talk
2006-12-11 00:38:07 · answer #6 · answered by labs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in what way do you think you're a loser?and why are you thinking you're such a loser??and i don't think you don't have any friends...
you're just thinking you wil be called a loser..you're just making your own worries
2006-12-10 18:13:46 · answer #7 · answered by yucanzee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋