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Finding a good school that meets all your criteria, on the other hand, is a near-impossible task.

The only criterion I had in my mind for my son when we first moved here was that his school should be within walking distance from our house. Under no circumstances was I willing to put him (my baby!) on a bus to and from school. So we picked a house that was close to a school with kindergarten classes.

The reality here is that the schools, especially in Bangalore, are catering to a wide variety of demands - those of the returning NRIs many of whom have had their children in Montessori or alternative environments in the US, and those of the parents who are more intimately aware of the demands put on young children in grade schools. So the schools call themselves Montessori schools to attract the NRI population, but follow a strict, rigorous, curriculum to train the children to pass the inevitable entrance tests. I've heard of parents complaining that the schools don't work the children hard enough.

Most parents, frankly, are scared. Admissions to the schools that are considered good (although overpopulated, understaffed and in many instances, on the outskirts of town) are extremely hard to come by. Parents stand in line for days to get registration forms at these schools. So that first grade entrance test is a defining event in a scholastic career.

There are the international schools of course, but these too merit close scrutiny. There is nothing preventing a school from slapping on the 'international' tag. Moreover, they are expensive because they mostly try to attract and cater to the expat population.

The thought that I want to leave you with is this: there is nothing wrong in children learning to read and write and do math (and color, although my son hates it) and, if you want your children to grow in this school system, they do need to. Unless you want to be an outlier and send your children to schools that have no tests whatsoever until high school (Valley School, for example).

But, if you want to be in the mainstream, be prepared to put your foot down if your child is being pushed too much. You are the best judge of your child's mental framework and nothing is worth squashing his creativity (which I guarantee the reams and reams of repetitive homework will do), not even a seat in a "good" school.

So, suck in your breath and steel yourself for the 'untidy' or 'could be neater' comments on his homework. It's a safe bet that neither Steve Jobs nor Bill Gates has pretty handwriting, and remember neither finished college.

2006-12-10 19:05:26 · answer #1 · answered by Rozzy 3 · 0 0

Any school which has a reasonably good faculty and infrastructure has to be good. Irrespetive of which scaholl is te best, if the child has good attitude towarsd studies, he shall shine anywhere. So at this stage do not worry about school. Just make sure you spend some quality time with your child.

2006-12-10 22:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by SGraja 4 · 0 0

i agree rozzy
good answer

2014-05-17 20:26:15 · answer #3 · answered by Shaik 1 · 0 0

Am also searching for the same!

please let me know nearby areas where you are targetting.... National, Bethany and Greenwoodhigh are best in Koramangala

2006-12-10 22:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by Harish R 1 · 0 0

good answer from rozzy. but don't you think 3 is too young for finding out schools. let the kid enjoy being a kid. let him go to a playschool.

2006-12-10 22:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by cv 3 · 0 0

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