2006-12-10 17:58:26 · 15 answers · asked by i cant 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yea, why not? It's not like he can read your mind! If your in bed, don't be afraid to tell him what you want too. It's not bad. It's actually better, you'll enjoy it at lot more if you are open with your sexuality. He's your husband! If you can't be sexual with him, that's just sad for both of you.
2006-12-10 18:03:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once your married, you don't have to be shy to be the initiator. You will find this necessary after the first few months anyway. It shows you are still interested in him and find him attractive. Women don't have the market cornered on that concept.
2006-12-11 02:05:15 · answer #2 · answered by PZ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 50 years old and believe me,women are initiators as often as men.Initiate away,he will understand and follow your lead like a pup.
2006-12-11 09:19:11 · answer #3 · answered by Den 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly natural for a woman to have sexual urges. there is nothing wrong with initiating those desires to your husband. because you are suppose to desire after your husband. So, express these feelings to him and he should be open to recieving your embrace.
Good Luck & God Bless
2006-12-11 02:09:59 · answer #4 · answered by da realest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure why not! More women should do this and my man really thinks this is sexy(coming from him). I think men sometimes get sick of always initiating sex and probably us women would do it more often.
2006-12-11 02:03:15 · answer #5 · answered by kerrberr95 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me personally,i would love for my wife to initiate sex
2006-12-11 23:20:19 · answer #6 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes go for it
2006-12-11 02:16:12 · answer #7 · answered by cm f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, it's not 1960.
2006-12-11 02:03:36 · answer #8 · answered by lorraineca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ,he would love it!however dont do it when hes watching his favourite sport etc he might throw you off then you would be hurt or offended
2006-12-11 02:02:49 · answer #9 · answered by jewel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? This is the 21st century, you know.
2006-12-11 02:02:43 · answer #10 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋