I'm not pregnant, but this may give me a clue for what may have happened to me one day my ex-boyfriend did some things to me. I can't remember much about that day... but only my stomach ached, but I don't know if he hit me... or the other thing is that maybe he raped me and he hurt me but I don't know please help me? I really can't remember... the only thing I remember is like... being in a dream or sedated or something. Anyway, is there a pill I can take to regulate my period? It's been lacking for like 6 months... I am worried... what should I do?
2006-12-10 17:57:06 · 13 answers · asked by patricia l 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Really, not pregnant. Neither am I sure that it was abuse... I just stopped having my period after that day [when that serious *thing* (???) happened]
2006-12-10 18:00:25 · update #1
i'm 17, what does it have to do???
2006-12-10 18:33:12 · update #2
You need to get some trauma counseling to open up those emotional blocks to remembering what happened, and to deal with the emotional pain. It's also possible you ingested one of the variety of date rape drugs out there and that has interfered with your being able to remember. It is not uncommon for menses to stop with physical./emotional abuse trauma such as this. Low dose estrogen birth control pills for a few months will often reset your menstrual "clock" and get your cycles back to normal. Dealing with the trauma is much more important, however, since that can have long lasing effects on your emotional well being, sense of trust, ability to express love, etc. Don't avoid your own pain about these events. Seek some professional (and I mean certified professional therapist, not your girl friend's ear) counseling to work through it.
Briant Burke, MD
www.cbrmed.org
briant@cbrmed.org
2006-12-10 18:08:43 · answer #1 · answered by drq10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a doctor. Tell him the story and be sure you are not pregnant. When women have trauma like this sometimes their periods stop, so the doctor can probably give you something to help you.
http://earthops.org/rohypnol.php
It sounds like the guy used that date rape drug on you. If I were you I would consider calling the authorities because the guy is a rapist at best and may be an attempted murderer because that drug is very dangerous
2006-12-10 18:00:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes there are natural variations in a woman's cycle or variations due to stress, losing too much weight, dong too much excercise on a long-term basis, etc. Or it could be a result of injury or trauma. Sometimes women get pregnant without a lot of other symptoms.
If you are worried, see a sexual health clinic/doctor. They may also be able to offer you support to deal with this traumatic situation such as counselling or referral to a domestic violence agency.
Good luck! You are not alone! Don't put up with this kind of **** from anyone.
2006-12-10 18:17:59 · answer #3 · answered by Ms Piggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get an appointment to see a doctor. Missing your period for that amount of time is serious. Do a search on the computer on amenorrhea that's the medical term for not having a regular menstrual cycle. Also check out emedicine.com
2006-12-10 18:06:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stress can do that. But do not take bc pills (drugs). See fat loss tip # 11 on home page of site below for info from 2 female doctors on why you should not take bc pills. Drop your bf. See webpage below to help you with your stress. Your bf could have given you Rohipnal.
http://www.phifoundation.org/happiness.html
2006-12-10 18:11:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shoiuld seek a therapist and it is possible that they can hypnotize you to see what actually happened. I do not think you are pregnant because by then you would start showing and you did not mention that. Talk to your parents and if you cannot speak to them I think you should speak to your doctor about it. Good Luck and I hope you have a good Christmas.
2006-12-10 18:47:33 · answer #6 · answered by HeavensAbove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a woman's body is under stress u may not have one for several months.. others will have for 30 days and start all over.
there is some strange ones out there ud better go to obgyn. seriously. he could have done anything to u and could cause infection or worse. gang green
2006-12-10 17:59:47 · answer #7 · answered by someones sister 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
6 months is a long time, maybe you are pregnant, the best is to see your doctor about that.
good luck !
2006-12-10 18:01:09 · answer #8 · answered by BleedingAngelSecretWounds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Goodness! I'm not a doctor but my guess is to see your doctor about that. Then you'll know for sure
2006-12-10 17:58:46 · answer #9 · answered by candace g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to see a dr and pls get some counseling. you deserve to be treated like a princess, not a punching bag.
2006-12-10 20:16:34 · answer #10 · answered by yellabanana77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋