he says ``whatever it is that`s bothering you, go ahead and tell me, coz how else would i know if you wouldnt?`` but can you really tell him everything you feel? is this him being insensitive?
2006-12-10 17:28:07 · 4 answers · asked by i cant 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think sometimes its really hard to tell the person your closest to how you feel about something especially if
its about them,you may feel they might reject you,or you really might not want to know what they have to say about it,it might be good to talk to someone else that you can trust first to see what they think,its unrealistic to think that you should share every thought and feeling as you may hurt them unwillingly or yourself
been there!
2006-12-10 17:44:36 · answer #1 · answered by jewel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will tell him coz as husband and wife, i believe that everythings must discuss and be honest with each other. And because i also don't want him to keep anything from me too.
2006-12-11 01:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by Sunflower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
occasionally i try only to realize that he will never really understand. i don't know if it's a guy/girl thing or if it's just a personality thing. it also depends on how sincere you think he's being when he asks you to open up. i think often times men say that cuz they think that's what they're supposed to say....not becuz they really care. if you go on and on about that thing that's troubling you, their mind starts wandering. that's been my experience with my husband thus far! sometimes i think that he doesn't know me at all. it's sad but that's my reality.
2006-12-11 02:01:08 · answer #3 · answered by enroute_bc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be frank is more friendship.
2006-12-11 01:47:02 · answer #4 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋