2006-12-10 17:25:37 · 21 answers · asked by wannabebad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you were married, how would you feel if your husband had an affair??? That is one of the worst things a person could go through(relationship wise). Put yourself in his wife's position, would you really want to make her feel that way?
2006-12-10 17:33:16 · answer #1 · answered by Nautalee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
You didn't say what your marital status was but really it wouldn't affect what you really should do.
It is best that you do not get together for a relationship with someone who is married.
There are a number of reasons for this irrespective of whether it is right or wrong.
One reason is you are likely to get hurt. It is unlikely that he will leave his wife for you in the long run. If he does leave his wife for you and you two get married, it is unlikely that the marriage will last. Statistics show that 2nd and 3rd marriages are more likely to result in divorce than 1st marriages. Another thing to consider is that you would become involved with a man who is willing to cheat on his wife. Considering this, you would always have to wonder if he would cheat on you.
Things can get very ugly in a variety of ways should your relationship get discovered.
You should consider the ramifications of whether to get involved very carefully. Please don't do what feels good at the moment. Please look at the long term effects of your choice.
Good luck
2006-12-11 01:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by Augie R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer lies in your question. He is married so NO, you should not get together with him and if he desires the same of you then he is not as wonderful as you think. You can paint a skunk pink but it is still a skunk!
If you have a Bible, check out what God says about adultery, it will take you to hell...no matter how much fun you may have here on this earth, in the end there is a fiery pit waiting for you.
God Bless.
2006-12-11 01:31:36 · answer #3 · answered by justbuddy67 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! Yeah he's wonderful! He's telling you everything you want to hear, and your at that honey moon stage. But trust me that all ends and it when it does the story will repeat itself. If he didn't respect his own wife or have any consideration...what makes you think he will respect you now or later on? Not a chance, and why is he married. Don't you think he should be divorced? Why would you want to be a rebound...at this time he's not thinking correctly. I think its best for you not to get involved.
2006-12-11 02:06:22 · answer #4 · answered by ♪♫♫♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wont do you any good.. wherever you look at it.. its either you get a broken heart or you break another`s.. as they have said, if he cheats with you, then he can also cheat ON you.. easier said but really now.. you better think of all the consequences before you go too far.. regrets are awfully heavy to have you know..
love yourself more, im sure there is someone out there who is half a man and will love you truly.. you dont wanna be called a mistress and a home wrecker do you?
2006-12-11 02:14:31 · answer #5 · answered by i cant 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man who is cheating on his wife with you, will cheat on you eventually too. That's the pattern of behavior. Don't think for one minute that you are really that much better than his wife and it's all her fault. That's the line guys give when they want to mess around with other women. They make you feel sorry for them for living with such a terrible wife. I bet you have heard stories and feel bad for him, right? No surprise there.
If you stay with this guy, you are headed for a lot of heartache. Good luck with that!
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-11 01:28:56 · answer #6 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You know the moral reasons not to do this, if you have the intelligence to ask a question on this answer forum. You just need someone to tell you NO! I would worry that the same thing would happen to me when I was married. (what comes around, goes around) If I were you, I would call his wife and tell her what a scum he is.
2006-12-11 02:47:15 · answer #7 · answered by Maddie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please please don't. I am on the other end of something like that and it hurts. He's married and that means there is a wife there. Please don't do this even if it's so tempting. You'll hurt, he'll hurt, and the other party will hurt also. Nothing like this ever really works out, even if he decides to take it a step further. Let's say, things get serious and all that. He leaves her and ends up with you. You don't see his faults right now and believe me, you will. What he does now or is thinking of doing now, he'll do later. It's a cycle.
2006-12-11 01:32:12 · answer #8 · answered by bears_and_kittens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! that is the worst thing you should do. if he wants to be with you then he should divorce his wife. put your foot in his wife's position if that was u would like some other women trying to get with ur man. if you do that that is ur choice but rem it will bite u in the but later on.. I feel really bad for his wife. I hope you make right decision. good luck
2006-12-11 01:34:08 · answer #9 · answered by nicole23wa@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. He is married and needs to stay in a married man's place. Find someone single. Remember you will reap what you sow!!
2006-12-11 01:30:59 · answer #10 · answered by softlyinspired 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋