Should I take her to the Christmas party? What about attire?

Question

i am in a interracial relationship and the guys at work are always telling me they fantasize about black women. i really would like to go but my girl is hot, i know once those jerks see her, they are going to ask personal questions. my girl is also very curvy in all the right places, how should i ask her not to wear anything form fitting and low cut. i love it when she dress sexy but pls not around those jerks. i can hear them now gauking at her assets. ne ideas ladies and gents.

Answer 1

Ask the guys in advance to be respectful
stop hanging around jerks
or let her know the party attire will be "dress conservative"
if she asks "how do I look?" Let her know if it's too sexy.

Answer 2

Hmm this is quite a tough dilemma. You don't want to offend your gal by telling her what to wear, but at the same time you're scared if dresses too sexy the guys at work will be all un-gentlemanly. I guess...you could try going shopping with her for the party, so in other words she'll help you pick out an outfit and you can help her (and slightly edge her over to a more conservative outfit). If I was you, I'd tell her the truth about 'guys at work' and the only reason you'd like her to wear something more conservative is so she won't be hurt/offended by those guys. If you are completely sincere and honest when talking to her, I'm sure she'll understand. Approach her when she's in a good mood, and may be say that this will be one of the few occasions that you'd like her to dress a little more conservatively. If she's already met your parents then you could tell her to wear something similar to what she wore on that occasion. Hmm...oh! and remember on the night, tell her she looks beautiful! That should do the trick. have fun and you can always confront those 'jerks' like a gentleman on the night. Just relax and have fun, it's Christmas!

Answer 3

Let them EAT THEIR HEARTS OUT yea you take her and let her where anything her little heart desires - but tell her it is formal so she does dress appropriately-- she sounds like a black bag on her would make her sexy- and face it, those "guys" you work with will make a mans suit on her look sexy so enjoy the moment- don't let them talk trash about her- Im sure you dont do that about their girlfriends/wives and always TAKE THE HIGH ROAD- meaning- dont talk about their women/ and stop them when they start inappropriate behaviour about yours--- you are going to be the hottest couple there-- ps take your dig camera and get a few pix of their eyes bugging out of their heads when they see you.

BY THE WAY-- MAKE SURE YOU GIVE HER A HEADS UP ABOUT WHAT HORN DOGS THEY ARE OTHERWISE SHE MAY BE INTIMIDATED AND FEEL INSECURE IN THEIR COMPANY.

Don't punish yourself or her because they cant keep their fantasies g rated-- be proud, thankful and loving that you two are an item-- and dont be afraid to be a "little" affectionate in front of them - and by no means leave her with the pack of wolves for not even a minute- they will smack talk you and who knows what else because of their jealousy.


Have fun and Merry Christmas--- and ps dont forget to thank her for being so understanding and going to that party with you---it's a nice thoughtful touch.

Answer 4

Just be confident.My husband does that and it makes me very uncomfortable and i don't enjoy the event that we go to.So ,just tell her it is a Conservative party.Just stay with her all the time.No one would dare ask a personal question.If your co-workers have any respect for you,they wouldn't do that to you.If they go out of line,maybe you have the wrong kind of friends.

Answer 5

Well...just say it isn't a very formal thing...or maybe say it is fairly formal, she she dresses more modestly to your liking. And however she goes, just think, those guys can stare, but she's yours.