if you had worked hard for 20 years to get the good job you had, would you give it up to save your marriage? would you sell everything you had to live on for a short while and hope you could find a job in mexico? if you where faced with the fact that you may have to wait more than 3 years to be with your wife again how could you deal with this? im an american and have an approved --I-130-petition -and still must wait this long ,i feel they want to distroy as many marriages as possible, with no worry for what happens to the people involved, if you do it the correct way as everyone says you must, then you risk distroying your marriage, if this was your life what would you do or think about the problem at hand? remember the old saying out of site out of mind? is it fair to force people to grow apart for the sake of politics. my visits to american consulets in mexico proved to me that if you wish to immigrate you are a target of hait,, what would you do if this was your life?
2006-12-10 16:50:42 · 4 answers · asked by JALISCO 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
some times i wish that i would go to sleep and never wake again, how is it that we spend a million to help other countrys but will not make the effort to solve small things like this for U.S. citizens.
2006-12-10 17:03:02 · update #1
yes i have been american since i was a baby.
2006-12-10 17:05:11 · update #2
Hi,
I believe when you are married, your wife should be able to get a permanent visa to live in the USA with you. That is assuming you are a legal alien, I don't think anyone is trying to make your life miserable, it is more of a legal issue and if you are an illegal, then you have two choices, one, file for legal citizenship and you can then get your wife to join you, and if you cannot, then the only choice you have is to return to Mexico as you are not a legal citizen of the United States and do not belong here.
Darryl S.
2006-12-10 16:59:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are doing some thing wrong if you are married all she has to do is to put in the paper work to the embassy in her country they do a back ground check on you and her and as long you make 1.5 percent above proverity level and your back ground check come clean and her there shouldn't be no problem at all for her to come to the ( us) as your wife.
2006-12-10 17:15:19 · answer #2 · answered by little_bear 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try to petition for your wife to join you? You didn't explain this.
Where theres a will there's a way, you just have to find it.
2006-12-10 20:32:16 · answer #3 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in love everything is beautiful .
When love dies come back man this is your country .
2006-12-10 19:04:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋