i met my best friend about 5 months ago at work and at the beginning, i thought he was a really cool, good-looking guy. i gave him my number and that night he called me and informed me he had a girlfriend. i told him that it was fine. i just wanted to get to know him better. so we hung out during 15-minute breaks and lunch breaks mostly. we would also talk on the phones at work and on our cells alot. well, recently, he just broke up with his girlfriend (of 4 years...). i really dont know what to do because i have developed deep feelings for him in the past couple weeks, but with him and his ex, things are going fine. theyre still hanging out and on good terms. also he just turned 22 and im about to turn 19. do you think i should do anything or wait for him to come around?
2006-12-10 16:42:06 · 7 answers · asked by jane 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just wait. if it's meant to be time will tell. don't jump to quickly. you don't want to get hurt. keep talking like you have and you maybe surprised. good luck !
2006-12-10 16:49:29 · answer #1 · answered by lynnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL OR HE WILL NEVER KNOW. IF HE FEELS THE SAME WAY THIS COULD BE THE START OF A NEW RELATIONSHIP. I MET MY B/F WHEN I WAS ON THE REBOUND AND FELL IN LOVE RIGHT AWAY AT FIRST I TOUGHT I WAS GOING FOR THE NEXT GUY TO GET MY ATTENTION BUT I WAS IN LOVE AND WERE STILL TOGETHER AFTER 3 YEARS. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-12-10 16:46:52 · answer #2 · answered by vanessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 4 yrs and hes still talking to her let them die down but be there as a good friend. be there as you never know he may need you for moral support and learn to know you do really care. wait it out.. smile and be good and there but dont hold your breath in the meantime. go out ..
2006-12-10 17:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no sure answer. But there are only 2 choices for you. So you might as well go for it. That way he'll know you you are in play for whatever decision he ends up making.
2006-12-10 16:50:00 · answer #4 · answered by Lorenzo Steed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it all go until he is totally done with the relationship.. Plain and simple.. AND. let the phone calls go until then (no cake and eat it too)
2006-12-10 16:45:48 · answer #5 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep testing the water, you'll know if he want you to make a move.
2006-12-10 16:45:08 · answer #6 · answered by j train 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait. Don't be a rebounder. They may get back together.
2006-12-10 16:44:34 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋