If you could.... would you cheat??? Even if he/she was absolutely wonderful to you... could you??? If you did would that mean you didnt love them??
2006-12-10 16:04:53 · 38 answers · asked by texaslady78 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just so everyone knows... yes, I am married but NO I have never cheated. I just have a friend who is considering and it seems that her and her spouse are in love and she has everything in life... No need to cheat I would say....
2006-12-10 16:11:32 · update #1
Only with John Travolta. My husband would understand. Besides I told him if he ever had the chance he could sleep with Angelina Jolie. Hey, I don't think even I would pass up that chance.lol
2006-12-10 16:10:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating isn't right. To me, personally, cheating is hurting the other person in so many ways that it isn't funny. It puts that person through such an emotional mess that it feels like it's the end of the world. I'm in that mess right now. I have a husband that I love so much, but he went after another woman. Would I take him back? Yes, I would, but it won't be easy. I sit and cry about it, I try to keep myself busy, but when that thought hits me that he's with another woman, it feels like there's not going to be no tomorrow. It hurts, it really hurts.
2006-12-10 17:01:23 · answer #2 · answered by bears_and_kittens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. My husband is absolutely wonderful to me...sometimes, but sometimes he gets on my nerves and finds excuses to not make love. It's not because he's cheating, but because he gets nervous that the kids will hear, or the youngest will walk in and catch us. I love him with my whole heart and think that if I ever cheated on him, I would have to tell him and let him dump me. And because I would be lost without him, could not do that to him, myself or our kids even though we have no biological children together. We have however built a foundation together.
2006-12-10 16:10:38 · answer #3 · answered by Ofie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so many of moral superiority on here, or else everyone is 23 years old. never say never or it will bite you in the butt and you will then have to be a hypocrite.
it happens all the time, i would bet half of the answers on here have "cheated" on their spouse in some way, not neccessarily physical. if you are doing something that you wouldn't want you spouse to know about, is it cheating or just lying or hiding the truth or a little fib? get off the high horses, i'll bet your neighbor is doing it.
for the record, the opportunity hasnt presented itself to me, but who knows what id do. im not going to give a self-righteous no though.
2006-12-10 16:26:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Many cheat these days, it depends on many things. Sometimes you may not want to but the other guy or girl in the spouse's life may coax you into a relationship. If communication channels are open, I dont think one wud ever cheat on spouse.
2006-12-10 16:09:28 · answer #5 · answered by SN 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it was a perfect opportunity, yeah. I mean a once in a lifetime sort of thing, I sure would. Like a realy hot famous person that I'd never see ever again or the one guy I had the biggest crush on ever in my entire life. If I ended up in that situation I think I just might go for it and I would probably tell him about it, too! That certainly doesn't mean I don't love my husband. My husband is the greatest! And if he ever found himself in a similar situation, it wouldn't bother me if he took advantage of it, too. If I kept cheating regularly with out him knowing, however, then I probably wouldn't be in love with him anymore at that point.
2006-12-10 16:19:47 · answer #6 · answered by waitin4payday 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Never. I could never imagine wanting to be with someone else. Then pretending everything is fine and going back to him. I don't understand why people don't just break up first if they have bad intentions with other people.
I am not quite sure what it means.... probally just that you could be primiscious. You meay love him as a person, but your love must not be that strong if you are willing to hurt him for another bed.
2006-12-10 16:08:38 · answer #7 · answered by mke 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would never cheat on my spouse no matter what the situation is. even if he cheated on me, i wouldn't turn around and do the same thing to him because that would just be wrong. i mean you guys got married for a reason and you shouldn't turn your back on your word and marriage vows.
2006-12-10 16:08:14 · answer #8 · answered by Melissa L 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. There is no reason to ever cheat on your spouse. If you truly love them then that is something that should never cross your mind. First off, it is the one act of betrayal that will never be forgiven or forgotten. I love my husband implicitly and he loves me and neither of us would hurt the other in that way.
2006-12-10 16:08:35 · answer #9 · answered by lilphill1 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not, period. When you are married, you have made a promise to your spouse, whether in words or implied that you will remain faithful. If you are unhappy in your relationship, then break up and move on, but don't screw around because everybody gets hurt.
2006-12-10 16:08:21 · answer #10 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋