please help me im 13 and i think i may be gay because i lik girls lots more then i do guys..what should i do
2006-12-10 16:03:32 · 12 answers · asked by Emi M 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You're more likely to be bisexual. You're too young to figure this stuff out. As an early teenager many people think about people of both genders because curiousity and such.
2006-12-10 16:05:54 · answer #1 · answered by tia 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can't do anything but let time pass and see what happens. At 13 you have lots of questions about lots of stuff. maturity helps you handle these things and if being a LESBIAN is what develops---it's nature and fighting it causes way too many problems----you have to be proud of who you are. At 13 experimenting is normal---guys and girls do lots of that. Just be careful and don't stray far from your teenage fun years-----avoid unpleasant situations---find friends who are supportive and just be yourself. Being a lesbian is not the end of the world. Find some good books on the subject of sexuality---ask the nurse in school or a trusted adult that will listen to you. Don't rely on street information---its usually wrong. BE nice be yourself---relax and enjoy your youth . Good luck
2006-12-11 00:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a bit early for you to be trying to decide this sort of thing. you are in a really strange time in your life right now. The teenage years are really not all that great. In fact they kind of suck, but for the most part I agree with Carlos Mencia here....If you think you might be gay then you are. Give it a try date a girl for a while if it doesn't work out go back to guys if you want to experiment then you should.
2006-12-11 00:06:46 · answer #3 · answered by Lion_Heart 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, at 13 I don't think it's too strange to like girls more then boys. If you like to hang out with girls, that's normal. I didn't really start liking boys until I was about your age.
But if you find yourself having crushes on a girl, maybe picturing kissing her or something, that may mean your a lesbian. Wait it out.
If you get really stressed find someone to talk to. You might not want to talk about it with your parents. Try your school consular. They can't tell you parent what you tell them by law.
Hope you figure everything out soon =)
2006-12-11 00:11:56 · answer #4 · answered by Happy Girl=) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax. dont stress. keep it to yourself until you are very very very sure. no use to cause an uproar this early on. You might really be a lesbian. but take your time to figure it out. it's OK if you are.
Its not going to be easy if you really are one. You'll have to be strong, because people will try to change your mind and pick on you and such.
I see alot of people are saying that you're young and so how could you know? but that is just as silly as asking a straight person, at what age did you figure out you were a heterosexual? MOST people KNOW very early that something is different.
good luck!
2006-12-11 00:10:45 · answer #5 · answered by Alias400 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK so your thirteen and things are really starting to open up... doors that weren't open before are open now and new ideas are coming into your head. If i were you i would REALLY think this out. I'm bisexual and i really had to think on it and i even had to go out with a girl before i was sure. this could be curiosity... or it could be bisexual or you could be gay. Give yourself a bit more time to decide your sexual preference before you jump into something you could regret.
2006-12-11 00:07:50 · answer #6 · answered by lilhellian17 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try havin sex wit a man and a gurl and the choose 1 u like the most
2006-12-11 12:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a few more years before you attach any labels to your sexuality
2006-12-11 00:07:16 · answer #8 · answered by atomicon 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you are too young to know what you like but explore life and have fun.
2006-12-11 00:30:34 · answer #9 · answered by jen4802051709 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't really know what you want when you're thirteen.
Don't worry about it, you'll figure it out when you're older and more mature.
2006-12-11 00:06:39 · answer #10 · answered by Yeah. 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋