PLS HELP??????Am I Wrong?I need advice.?

Question

Hi ,this is the question regarding my MOTHER-IN-LAW.
I am really sick of her behaviour and she really doesn't even bother for me except for his son and grandchild.We are not staying together but she has come to visit us for few days.
I did everything for she shud feel comfortable ,i made fresh breakfast every morning,fresh lunch and dinner everyday and yes we took her for shopping too and still she has so much of bad feelings for me,i do not work.Now she was packing her bag and had lots of extra stuff ,so my husband suggested to take her our handbag.I had no problems i just told him just check it once if any of my stuff is left behind,if any just remove it and if nothing is there then okay fine,just give the bag and pack it.So she said nothing is there but i just told her still i want to just check it once for my staisfactioni checked it and found some of my stuff,but she didnt knew abt it.But bcoz i checked the bag she got angry and slammed the door.My husband is also upset with me.

Answer 1

Your husband is wrong. First off, if you had a reason not to trust her, he should have supported you. He needs to cut the apron strings with his mother. If she didn't know that these items were in there she would have had no reason to be angry. She is just trying to cause trouble. Tell your husband that you are really hurt by the way he is treating you and that you just wanted to make sure the bag was empty before he gave it to his mother so that you didn't lose anything that may have been needed or important. If he had done this to begin with, there would have been no issues but the mother in law seems to have sticky fingers if you ask me. Just make sure that you do not let this happen again. If your husband is not willing to be your husband rather than her little boy, then he needs to move back in with mama til he grows up or he needs to apologize and stand up to her and show her that you are his choice for life and if she doesn't like that, then tough cookies, she isn't welcome anymore. She will get over it or she won't but it is basically your husband's reaction that I would be focused on, not hers.

Answer 2

Some women cannot adjust. Simple as that. They like to dominate everyone in sight. This is a woman to woman problem. Don't blame the man. He is caught in a pincer. i pity him.