i don't know what to do?people say have hope have faith have courage..buts its not but BS i am tired cause i am a immigrant in usa and my paper are in there and only god know how and when will get to me..i been waiting too long..i miss my parents i am a teenager that was born and didn't get chance to spend time with family..i cry sometimes. i am unlucky 6 year in usa i am 16 now and left when i was 10..i only carry the mories of of my family and that it. I trying to date women in USA but they are just so different i lose self esteem when i with them cause they are not from my coutry...so upset so tired of living in the world of dream i want reality i want to see my family in brazil i want to date people but i can't cause i am sometimes shy..can any help me i don't know what to do anymore with my life..other people are so happy and i am upset...please any help me on anything.
2006-12-10 15:47:01 · 5 answers · asked by klaycon1 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
aww well that is bad well you should go find people that are from brazil and be friends with them. I have neighbors from brazil they are cool and best cooks also yuumm ... well yeah you should go out there and dont care what people think and make new friends
2006-12-10 15:57:38 · answer #1 · answered by mari 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh boy!
Just hold it tight. You're gonna make it through. Faith and being courage are the words you won't understand at this age brother.
I salute you brother for making 6 years through without seeing your parents. You're such an amazing and couragious boy.
You're 16 and you should be in school. There would be good teachers out there in school who would be more than helpful to get over you confusions. Specially at this age you need lots of advises from elders, so don't be sad or anything, just find good people who are willing help you.
I'm glad you've presented your emotions in such a good way brother. Even though there is lots of mess in the internet see how good responses you're getting from good hearted people.
Hey, go to church, you don't have to be a christian. Go ask help from priest and tell your situation. Some priests are so powerful who will be able to persuade immigration officials to get your papers done fast.
And most importantly, don't hook up with bad friends. It can spoil your how life. This is the critical age everything starts. You either become a good man or bad. Path divides at this age. So just hold it tight and you're going to make it through and you're going to sponsor your parents to USA. You can be proud after bringing them here and making them happy with prosporous life.
About your girl friend concern. Please don't put lots of attention into it. And don't compare yourself with others. Everyone is unique and you have a different life situation and you've already achieved many things in your life which others didn't.
So leave out the negative parts of your life situation and always think about the possitive ones and push yourself into succeeding it through than wasting your life.
Hey, finally you also have a last card on your hand if anything didn't work in USA. Just tell the offcials that you go back and be with your parents.
Take care!
2006-12-10 16:22:37 · answer #2 · answered by stayPresent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do ur family a favor and ur sponsors to the USA, Stay in school long enough to take something back to ur country Brazil. U can't spell worth a crap so u haven't been paying attention in school and that's one of ur girl problems American girls like smart men. Ur accent could be a plus if u smarten up and learned our language a little better. What is really stopping u from returning home ur sixteen now and can decide for ur self in most courts throughout the land. If u miss home so much work, save, and buy a ticket back no one is keeping u hostage or r they?
2006-12-10 16:05:55 · answer #3 · answered by papabeartex 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when u lose hope, you're on the board of the cliff, there are two ways to get out.
1. Shot Yourself (I don't recomend this one)
2. Say to Yoursellf these isn't were I want to be.
If you're shy doesn't actually matter, you can still make friends and eventually get dates and all those stuff, but you'll have to look a bit harder, about missing you're family, why don't use messenger or letters, phone maybe?, don't be upset, keep you're head up, never give up, just remember to be yourself always, never think of what people think of u, that is the actual BS.
2006-12-10 16:09:50 · answer #4 · answered by Christian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is sad, I'm sorry to hear that. maybe you can find some people of similar culture, if not brazil, just, similar cultures.
2006-12-10 15:50:03 · answer #5 · answered by ♥perishedmemories♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋