This happen tonite this girl ask me to be her friend on facebook i added her and sent a message saying why did u request me. She writes back and tells me she fucked my boyfriend and he basically is her man. So i called him and asked him about it and he says no let me call you back cuz im bout to call her. He tells me she is just jealous of me and him. I dont know what to believe because he has already been on the iffy side with me i just dont know. He said i should have asked him instead of crying and believing what i hear and hung up on me what am i supposed to do or say????
2006-12-10 15:31:44 · 28 answers · asked by diamond 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get one thing straight - ITS THE GIRL WHO DOESNT WANT UR RELATIONSHIP TO HAPPEN.
thats why she called u in the first place.
& Dont give her the chance if u like ur boyfriend.
Whether he slept with her or hundreds of woman is immaterial. The point is that he is with u & not with the other 99 women.
Next time she tells u anything, just tell - u love the way he goes down on u & cannot leave him for that. & tell her if she wants to go down on u she can too.
That should stop her.
2006-12-10 16:46:20 · answer #1 · answered by jack 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's natural for people to believe what they hear because sometimes that is their only source of information. Chances are, he probably is cheating. He tried turning the conversation around to make it look like you are the bad person and not him. Call him and calmly tell him your suspicions and see how he reacts. If he gets really upset (I mean, more than a girl PMSing would) then he is trying to hide it. If he calmly explains everything then he isn't cheating. I hope that helped you.
2006-12-10 15:37:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he says he's going to call her? so that means he knows her then right?
And he hung up on you rather than comforting you?! (wrong move).. unless you were irate and acting nuts.
SUGGESTION: let it go.. don't talk to him or her. Let them both think it out. INTEGRITY is everything.. don't cry.. don't call.. don't write.. let them explain. And make sure it's a good explanation when he does call. And if he doesn't then forget about him!!
Good luck and get some confidence.. You know what to do.. it seems you are not stupid.. so start acting with maturity and confidence.
2006-12-10 15:38:43 · answer #3 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing! He's cheating on you big time and probably laughing at you behind your back. For him to tell you he's gonna call her-he's already got her number. If he's been iffy with you anyway that just shows he's been at it. He probably can't look you in the face properly either. Good luck!
2006-12-11 00:56:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Diamond ....if you are waiting for him to tell you that he is cheating ...you have long way to go .....I think a woman can tell if the guy is cheating or not...he changes so much that it is very very hard to hide it ....think in what he had change for you to beleive he had cheated......also you need to know if it was something at the time you were not with him .....or you should see what kind of reputation this other girl has you know ....I am not trying to excuse your boyfriend but sometimes there's women that hurt their selfsteem and they react by showing them how men they are ...it is not smart thing to do ...but it could be his case
2006-12-10 15:57:35 · answer #5 · answered by Yami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel it could be yes or no. It's hard to tell. The only way to know is if you ask her what his name is what does he look like.If She can describe it then I would put your man on a polygraph test. they are 170 dollars and you can call information and ask for polygraph test personal polygraph test and it will tell you they have one on river side ave.
how old are you? if he know her number how did he get it?
2006-12-10 17:19:01 · answer #6 · answered by sophie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By his behavior sounds like she may be telling the truth.
Unless he is normally a jerk by hanging up on you.
Investigate a little more before coming to a final solution.
Follow him in a friends car.
2006-12-10 15:48:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably right. She probably wants him and thought that would be the best way to split you guys up. Don't believe anything you hear and half of what you see. Woman can be very decieveing when they want something. Don't quit the relationship, you'll only be giving her what she wants!
2006-12-10 15:37:52 · answer #8 · answered by poolshtr79 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry ..!!.. to say young lady.. but it does sound like ...the bf...is a back stabber..and un-trust worthy of your love and attention ...as for the other ..wasabe.. nailed that spike....that will hurt for some-time.. walk away.. "now..!!' adam and evil..will get there due
in time... hope you find your true heart .. sometime down the line.. when your heart has healed ..so..!!.
2006-12-10 15:50:04 · answer #9 · answered by david 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never believe a guy when he says that to you. been there done that wore the tshirt. get rid of him chick. u deserve better no girl would say that if it wasnt true. trust me. your man wants the best of both worlds. dont let him walk all over you. good luck
2006-12-10 22:20:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋