my uncle just came out of the closet and i dont know what to do in this situation what to say ???
2006-12-10 15:29:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
oh my bad i forgot to mension cuz i was in a hurry ive known it for sicne i was little i just asked this question so that he sees this thing were u ask questions im totally cool wit it and it was a question so he can see how this works but other than that we are all good srry for the inconvinience
2006-12-10 15:42:44 · update #1
tell him its alright as long as he doesn't come on to you..
2006-12-10 15:33:25 · answer #1 · answered by bossman 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋
do you get along with him? then just let him know it feels cool that he trusts you with that info and it's not all there is of him. gay is only a small part of a person, like banker or brown eyes. telling you is just a way to prepare you for when he brings a man around and i hope you'll all be welcoming and i hope this man deserves your uncle. he's still the same uncle. love him the same as you ever did. it's no big deal.
2006-12-10 23:40:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what he will still be your uncle. He has not changes one bit, he has been this way the whole time, you just have not known it, it shouldnt change the way you feel, look,or act towards him. If you act diffrently, the situation is going to get awkward. Just let him know you love him, and you always did, and that even if he is gay, you are still glad he is your uncle. Hope that helped!
2006-12-10 23:35:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
But you see, it's NOT new news to him. He's been this way the whole time. Was he a jerk before? was he mean? was he nice? I mean, he's the same guy. YOU're the one it seems to be effecting. It's no big deal. Since he's the same person as before, why don't you be the same person too? This doesnt have to change anything.
2006-12-10 23:42:42 · answer #4 · answered by Alias400 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to DO anything. Just continue to love him as the person he was yesterday. The fact that he is gay does not change anything about who he was or who he is now. He has always been gay, you just didn't officially know it. If he asks how you feel, tell him.
2006-12-10 23:35:53 · answer #5 · answered by riversong65 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
is he in thirties, rich, handsome, and single? If you answer yes to all this questions. Then forward me his information. I will give take care of your uncle for you :-)
2006-12-10 23:43:36 · answer #6 · answered by JPR D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just let him know that u still care for him and that its going to take a while for u to realize it.
2006-12-10 23:39:56 · answer #7 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go up to him and give him a big hug and say that you can accept him for who he is.
2006-12-10 23:34:13 · answer #8 · answered by ...:::[A][Z][Z][A][H]:::... 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Fine.
Does his gender preference make his something else besides your uncle? I think not.
2006-12-10 23:32:02 · answer #9 · answered by J. 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd argue and give him a time to think.
2006-12-10 23:32:48 · answer #10 · answered by Super Saucy 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
tell him you support him and still love him
2006-12-10 23:31:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋