Ok well me and my boyfriend had sex and im not sure if he "came" in me or not. we were having sex and all of a sudden it got really warm down and extra wet. I seriosly thought i pissed but he didn't say anything so i took it as great sex.... i guess... then about a half hour later we stopped and he gave me a kiss and got off me and got a really weird look on his face and asked me where the codom was. i told him to stop joking around. but he was serios he got up turned on the lights and we found it close to my hip please help me is there any chance he did *** in me???
2006-12-10 15:05:12 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
He probably did. Go to planned parenthood ASAP.
2006-12-10 15:07:24 · answer #1 · answered by cb 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he most likely did "come" inside you...that warm sensation you felt is probably his semen. While I agree you are probably too young for sex I understand you're freking out and there's a greater problem at hand. Often times during sex the condom may slip off the guy's penis for several reasons. It may have been so slippery that it popped right off, it may not have been put on correctly, or possibly the in and out movement cause it to slip off. Whatever the reason you now have to take steps to avoid pregnancy or deal with one. Take the morning-after pill. It should be taken between 24 and 78 hours after intercourse. However I'm not sure about specifics so check that out. Go to a pharmacy or doctor to get one (I'm not sure if a prescription is required). Or try going to your school nurse if you have one because oftentimes they have some in stock. The way the pill works is that it causes you to get your period immediately thereby avoiding any unwanted "oops" type pregnancies. If you're uncomfortable asking your mom for help seeing as you are underage then I suggest going to someone you trust. At any rate it's more important to get the pill than avoid embarrassment and end up pregnant. Regardless of whether you take the pill or not, use an at-home pregnancy kit. They deliver relatively accurate results if used 2 to 3 days after sex. If the test comes back negative, do it again to ensure it wasn't a false negative and I suggest you do it again for the next couple of days to make sure it stays negative. If it comes back positive, go to a pre-natal clinic or any other such clinic and schedule a pregnancy test with them to ensure that it wasn't a false positive (at home kits are not entirely reliable). Actually you should get a professional test regardless of the result of the at-home test. If indeed you become pregnant then you have two choices, have the baby or abort it. Unless you are morally against abortion or can't bring yourself to go through with it I think it's your best choice. You are much too young to have a baby and you don't want to ruin, not only your life but your child's as well. Do the right thing for yourself. In the end, and I hate to be crude, you'd be putting the life of a cluster of cells above your own if you decide against abortion. However, be prepared for the emotional effects an abortion can cause. Anyway, I wish you luck and remember above all to stay calm and keep a cool head. Everything will turn out for the better and remember that even if he did "come" inside you it doesn't necessarily mean you are pregnant. Stay positive and good luck!!!
2006-12-10 18:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey i am not going to talk-down your bf, like most people would. I am sure he is going through a lot of stress right now with family and everything. But, the overprotective aspect of the relationship is a bad sign. Hitting you is unacceptable in any situation. There are people in way worse situations (stressful) than him and find out that there wives really ARE cheating and STILL do not ever lay a hand on the girl. For him to know you have Leukemia and not be able to control himself and hit you not only once but twice, that is not protective. Anybody who could do that WILL do it again and you will be even deeper with him to get out. Doesnt matter how sorry he is you can never trust that he will not do it again. Sorry to hear you are going through this because I know how you must feel about him, but you can not stand for that abuse. IT WILL GET WORSE trust me!!! There is a difference between being overly protective and being overly jealous. It is hard to see the difference sometimes that is why you look at the other signs like abuse and losing control. I say get away from him. I know you dont want to hear but you dont deserve that, no one does!!! Hope this helps and DO NOT put up with that. You may feel alone when your not with him but it will go away you can be happy again.
2016-05-23 04:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it sounds like he did. It is very hard for them to stop when they are about to come because it feels so good. So if you were messing around for 1/2 hour, you know you both were into it and so he was probably ready to let it all out. I would take this as a lession learned and hold off on the sex for a long time. You are only 15, my goodness, you have your WHOLE life in front of you. If you did get pregnant from this, then you will be growing up really, really fast really, really soon. Take care.
2006-12-10 15:12:12 · answer #4 · answered by Babygirl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You know if he did or not in 9 months
I would say he did if he did not use a condom. He would not of stopped having sex with you without getting off so that is why he looked at you like that cause he knows what he done but you should always put on a condom before even touching then you won't have to worry if he will put it on or not before coming.
You should really go to the doctor and get on birth control if you are not pregnant from this sexual encounter.
Better safe than sorry and if you are too embarrassed to go to the doctor for birth control then you are not mature to have sex.
Good luck
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2006-12-10 15:26:59 · answer #5 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all he more than likely did. Second of all you are only 15 you should really think about these things before you go and do them.Now what happens If you would come up pregnant.And for the adults on here how could you tell a 15 yr. old to go take the morning after pill..That is a living thing..If you end up that way there is a saying..if you play you pay
2006-12-11 04:01:29 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approximately 100% Sure-see if you can get the morning after pill from your doctor-if you do not have one then go to a Medical Emergency Clinic-can find in yellow pages if can't go to Emergency at nearest Hospital where a doctor can write prescription. If you take ASAP the pill will prevent the egg maturing into a fetus(child)but if you wait more than a couple of days will no longer have any effect. You may need Adult so talk with your MOM(even if it'll be very difficult still easier to do than be pregnant).
2006-12-10 15:12:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're having sex there's a chance! Even condoms aren't 100% ...This should be a test to you!
If you don't know the possibilities and are not ready to deal with the consequences of sex...then you shouldn't be having it!
With that said I know you're stressed, you should definately go to the doctor and check your options at 15 you might have to have the help of your mom so be prepared...and take care of yourself girl...you haven't even driven a car or graduated high school! Have fun but be careful....good luck!
2006-12-10 21:07:51 · answer #8 · answered by whitney h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could have. maybe you guys could buy smaller condoms? what is he wearing? they shouldnt come off that easily if they fit appropriately.
anyways you shold get on plan B (the mornign afterpill) if it has been less than 72 hours. im pretty sure they sell them over the counter now for abotu 40 dollars or so. you may need to be 18 to to purchase it. so maybe have an older friend grab you a pack. or just go tot your local planned parenthood and get some.
the sooner you take it the huigher chance it has at protecteing pregnacy. the more you hold off the greater risk you are at becoming pregnnat.
2006-12-10 16:28:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Still in high school, and still don't know how you get pregnant? God, why decide to have sex when you don't even have a clue on how you get pregnant? Your life is now f***ed. Who will take care of a crying baby all night? Who will care for it when you are at school? Who will buy it diapers, food, and baby formula? See, raising a baby is not easy. Plus, you spelled condom wrong. It's not codom. Hopefully your horny boyfriend doesn't dump you.
2006-12-10 15:28:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very possible that he came in you. *** has a very distinct smell, so if you noticed a scent down there that you didnt think belonged to you then im guessing that he did. And when you found this condom did you look in it to see if there was anything in it?? if there was then im sure you have nothing to worry about. anyways, you're only 15 and you should really be careful. good luck and hopefully all is okay.
2006-12-10 15:10:35 · answer #11 · answered by laikensmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋