2006-12-10 14:59:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
take time to know who you are now. what you expect out of life and the relationship- any .. take time to write down what you like about that person and how they make you feel when you are with them. Prioritize your life education and goals and keep on track. Then if you want more time together and there is compromises that are workable then its good. "That is the therapy" That is what space is for.It is not to cheat and go out with as many as you can because that isnt space that is death to the relationship and they deserve to be let lose so they may have a chance and not invest time to be hurt.
2006-12-10 15:04:52 · answer #1 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you both can have "alone time"! Whether it's being in a seperate part of the house for an hour or 2 or going somewhere for a few hours. Everyone needs time alone every once in awhile in a relationship.
If you both have friends that you are close with, I suggest that maybe both of you schedule a day of the week that you each go with your friends to do something. That day of the week, each week, plan something to do whether it's going to a movie or dinner. Just something to do away from each other. It's not that you don't like your "better half", its just you need your space once in awhile.
2006-12-10 18:28:32 · answer #2 · answered by kerrberr95 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fiance has a "man room" in our house- where only he goes- not me or the kids go there unless invited. It gives him time to be himself by himself. He has all of his video games, tv, cable, microwave, fridge, etc. just to make sure he can "escape" when needed.
I also encourage him to go out with his friends and hang out every so often because when you smother someone they dont like it and the relationship stalls....
Just let the person be whom they are, let them have their hobbies and encourage them to have good friends.
2006-12-10 15:04:02 · answer #3 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read your Bible...the King James one
2006-12-10 15:26:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋