Is there something wrong with me?

Question

I am very serious when I ask this. I want sex all the time. Every relationship I have been in I want more sex then my boy friend can give me. Not that these sexual session I have are unsatisfying, but I constantly crave sex. I often feel very rejected and hurt when I am turned down by my partner. I feel like it is personal and that I am unattractive. I think about sex constantly and I talk about it all the time. Like an obsession.

Do you have any advise for me? I am 24yr old female. I have never cheated and don’t want to. I also look at porn a lot.

Thank you,

Answer 1

Have you ever been sexually abused? if so this is probably the ,source of your over active sexual appetite. you say, you do not want to cheat, but if the obsessive behavior continues, soon your boyfriend will not be enough for you..Also you stated that you feel unattractive and you take it personal when you partner turns you down. I think there was some sort of abuse in your past. please, if so seek treatment, this will continue to affect all aspects of your life. I hope the best for you, take care.

Answer 2

Two things come to mind. One, perhaps you are insecure. Two, perhaps you are a sex addict.
Often times people who are insecure constantly crave sex as validation that they are pretty or good enough, something to that effect. You may not realize that you are doing that, but if you give it some thought, see if you are looking for a reaction from someone either related to your partner or you (not necessarily a relative). The other possibility is a sex addiction. I don't know a whole lot about that, but it is worth exploring the possibility. If it is either of those things, you could have such a happier and more fulfilling relationship if you deal with those issues.

Answer 3

You sound fine to me! Stop worrrying about it, you should be glad your not an frigid woman! Sex is wonderful

Answer 4

wow. thats pretty crazy. i think you should give it a rest... get a new hobby. :)