My freshman year i went away for school, and i didn't do too hot. I was a sheltered overprotected child. I stayed home this past semester and took time to mature, get my priorities in order. So now its that time for me to decide whether i should stay home or go away. I believe that if i went back i'd succeed, but at the same time i'm afraid to make the same mistake or one just as bad even though that could happen anywhere. And it would be definitely going against what my dad wants me to do. But then I could stay home and I could suceed @ home but I feel like I'm not giving myself a fair chance to grow up and become SELF-disciplined and independent!
2006-12-10 14:29:55 · 5 answers · asked by black_butterfly 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Higher Education (University +)
When I talk about stayin home I would go to school, but i'd just be staying with my overbearing/overprotective father probably not maturing or experiencing things that i should be to help me to transition comfortably into adulthood.
2006-12-10 15:28:05 · update #1
It's your choice, of course...but I think you should go away to school again, become more independent, and this time do what you need to to do well in your studies. Focus, work hard, enjoy yourself but remember you're there primarily for the education.
Sounds like now you're more mature, "have your priorities in order" and perhaps you're now ready to move on.
2006-12-10 14:44:28 · answer #1 · answered by Shars 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is very important for you to go back to school. Being in my sophmore year of college, everything gets a lot easier once you are done with your freshmen year. College is completely different from high school and it takes a while to get adjusted to it. I would bet that if you continue college, later on in life you will look back at it as not only the best time you have ever had in your life, but also the most worthwhile investment of your time and efforts.
2006-12-10 22:46:56 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff McManus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it like the long-term. Would you rather be a bujm on the streets or a rich gal with a nice house. I'd choose the second one. I know that it could take some time to adjust, but hey, you've only been through one year. After this year, you'll get used to it and you'll be glad you made the choice.
2006-12-10 22:36:02 · answer #3 · answered by Richard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
which side do u feel more comfortable?
at home or in college?
i will choose to study in college because u need to confront the society in the future. It is not avoidable for u to have problems when dealing with different people, but if u don't go out, how can u solve the problems?
in college, u will deal with school. people and of course challenges.
it is a part of your life, a part of grown-up adult.
believe you can, and don't always reject yourself.
everyone can succeed in college, so do U !!
please think carefully before u study
2006-12-10 22:37:12 · answer #4 · answered by poppennysun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go to school and try to be a desciplined and mature person. you will know more about yourself and discover your talents
if you attend to school and participate in every activity in your school or even in your classroom activity.goog luck!!!godbless you...
2006-12-10 22:38:54 · answer #5 · answered by rizya2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋