2006-12-10 14:10:29 · 16 answers · asked by Day_Dreamer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, this is not normal. What this means is that either a) he is having an affair and feels guilty kissing you while he is cheating on you; b) he is bored with you and looking to have an affair but hasn't found an opportunity yet; c) he doesn't like kissing you.
Either way he is too much of a "Nancy" to tell you how he feels and is lying to you. Confront him.
2006-12-10 14:18:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends. I have a husband who shares his dislike for kissing.
My husband never had many girlfriends and visited hookers for sex. They don't kiss. So he got used to sex without kissing.
Is it normal? Maybe. If you love kissing and remember how great it was to receive long, sweet kisses, it can make your heart ache for the passion it brings. I know my husband is disappointed that it takes so much direct stimulation and time to get me warmed up... if only he would spend 10 minutes kissing me first. That's the easiest way to heat things up.
After 22 years and much pleading (and trying to teach him the finer arts of slow tongue dancing). I'm still waiting.
Could be because he wears dentures and you need teeth to kiss well. Can't find any answers on the Net.
Good luck. You may find yourself in twenty years yearning for those long lost kisses. I am.
2006-12-12 23:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by FirstKiss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not normal but then again, who are we to say what is normal? It may not be normal for some but for others it is. Mine does not like to kiss either. Once in a blue moon he will. But he sure don't like to. Some people are just that way. When I first got with him, I thought I had bad breath or something. So I asked him why he never kissed me, and he told me he just didn't like to kiss. I went as far a brushing my teeth and tried to kiss him and he just didn't want to. Plain and simple most do like to kiss and some don't.
2006-12-10 22:58:49 · answer #3 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband has never given me an open-mouth kiss. He wears dentures and is very self-conscious about it. He is afraid I will not react in a positive way when he kisses me if the dentures should slip. I say that is no reason to withhold the type of kisses I want.
2006-12-10 22:25:44 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not unusual,i'm not much of a kisser either. are you talking about just peck(closed mouth) kissing or are you talking about french kissing(tongue)? i dont mind pecking but i'm not much into kissing with the spit involved..never have been and i have been married for 8 1/2 yrs. i will say that when we are intimate i will kiss more passionately. but i dont want to be slobbed down just because we are saying hello or goodbye...make sure you are double checking yourself...make sure you dont have a wet mouth or bad breath..i'm not saying that you do but you just want to make sure that you dont..are you a smoker? is your husband? i know form experience that smokers breath is bad. do you drink coffee and smoke? that makes the breath even worse..see i dont do either so it makes me really sensitive to the smell. just take extra precaution if you want some "sugars" from your man..and talk to him,you all have to compromise.you may have to accept little kissing because he dont like it and he must give up some kisses because you do like it..if you love each other you will do what it takes to keep each other happy
2006-12-10 22:25:19 · answer #5 · answered by huneygrl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, could he be gay? Maybe they go deeper or he just doesn't like kissing, but my hubby loves to kiss me. That was not meant as a mean remark, but can't rule out the possibilities especially if he doesn't like kissing women at all. Find out all that you can.
2006-12-10 22:14:38 · answer #6 · answered by Kelly s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, then there is a hang up on his part and tell him to get a life and induce some exotic behavor. like strawberries and some other food to share. there is also stimulants that occure during kissing let him know that you get tingley and wet when kissing and just arroused all over good luck
2006-12-10 22:16:32 · answer #7 · answered by sweetgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing is a very emotional thing. I dated a man for awhile who didn't like to kiss because he said it was to "emotional" and made women think he liked them. He thought it was "normal" and "ok" to have sex without kissing.......... because kissing made it to personal ........ Go figure. Needless to say he was never interested in any kind of "relationship" he was only looking for sex. (lost him real fast....lol) This is a common problem with men who have sexual addictions to pornography also.
2006-12-10 22:16:35 · answer #8 · answered by Sally B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my wife is the same way. it sucks when you are the one who loves kissing and your other doesn't. i hadn't met anyone who didn't like to make out until i met her. but she is so great i over look that small thing.
2006-12-10 22:14:20 · answer #9 · answered by GoatFingers 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Oh you mean you finally woke up out the spell and reality sucks and can't believe it? Oh dear....
2006-12-10 22:33:22 · answer #10 · answered by yummybubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋