how do you know if your husband is wit other woman?

Question

this question please answer it married people

well we use to to have sex 4 times a day and know its maybe 1 a week.
he is in the army he dosent como late but he dosent want to talk with me or go out

Answer 1

"wit"????

How about you ASK HIM.

Then you FOLLOW HIM.

Then you DIVORCE HIM.

:)

Answer 2

Chances are very iffy for this one. The reason why you dont have sex four times a day anymore is because the phareamones wear off. Meaning when you are first with someone the what ever it is the sets off attraction only last 2 years. My friend is a psycologist so I know all this stuff. After 2 years if he or she sttogether its called attachment. If you and he dont make love four times a day anymore the pharamones are fading not nessesarly the love. It happend to all of us its what the mind does. Some times men cheat after the pharamones wear off because they need that feeling. some times you get a good man and they except it and dont cheat. I feel in my heart that he is bored and need excitment. Its not your fault either. it just happends. My advice to you is to except it and just try to spice it up. it will work sometimes and some times not. As far as trusting him, i would put him on a polygraph test. they have them call information and ask for perosnal polygraph they are 170 . I was in your situation we did it 12 times a day and it stopped i tried and tirend to keep it going but it just didnt work so we went to a sex therapist and the therapist said its normal you can change the pharamones. He is stilll with you cause he is attached. if you want to keep him hugging with help with attachments as well i learned all this in sex counseling. my man failed the polygraph test. he was bored when the sex faded he did in fact cheat. some will some wont but dont think cause he isnt doing it with you as much that he is having sex with someone else thats not nessesarly true . just means it faded and its completely normal. if he starts doing you agin 4 times a day it will mean he has had something different and he will want to do you alot again. so dont accuse. put some eyeliner or lipstick on his penis if its there when he gets home hes faithful.

Answer 3

he is silent, quiet, there isn't any of the communication you once had, he goes to another room to answer the phone. he bathes more than usual, primps in the bathroom more, when making love, he is different than he use to be, all of a sudden it feels as if u are with someone else. he is no longer concerned with your needs, or the needs of the household, he complains he has no money, he has to work late, or he has to work out of town, but if the boss calls don't say a thing, as the boss doesn't know about the side job. he openly talks about being unhappy which slowly escalates into picking fights with you, name calling, critizing, expressing that he made a mistake when he married u, finding falt with everything u do. buying new clothing, saying he hates his life, and his job. saying were doomed all of the time. blaming u for everything that goes wrong. seems annoyed with you and everything u say, cuts u short in conversations. leaves and says he is going to see a friend, and staying gone for hours and hours. just a total change in habits. just not making u his priority anymore. annoyed if u need him to fix something. at first they may buy you gifts, because they feel guilty about it. talking about a friend that is cheating or has a girlfriend, but it is really him talking about himself. just doing things that u know are totally out of character, and ofcourse your intuition knows it before u do, so pay close attention to your gut feeling, cause it know's, it's that nagging feeling deep within, when u know something is wrong, but can't put your finger on it.

Answer 4

Something is wrong here. If he won't talk to you and not sure how you are going to make him. You might try the direct approach and if he's listening tell him your worries and fears. You want to know the truth, don't you?

Being in the army has it's pressures and maybe something at his work is worrying him. Perhaps it's top secret and he can't tell you?

This is a hard one and I can't really help you as I don't personally know him or how he may react to your questions. Sorry and good luck.

Answer 5

He spends time away that he cannot explain.
He smells clean in the middle of the day, arrives home smelling of soap and shampoo - or faintly of perfume.He has the odd hair on his coat or jumper that doesn't match yours.
He makes mysterious phone calls, hides the phone bills, has strange items show up on his credit card bills.
Usually you have to go by gut instinct.
In the end you have to check - yes you are supposed to trust but gut instinct meant checking his mobile phone messages and finding 'I've booked the day off work, I can't wait to see you and spend time with you xx'. Yes, that was a big clue.

Answer 6

If he becomes disinterested in sex/being intimate with you (which guys usually NEVER do). If he is secretive about where he is going or who he is spending his time with. If he does not allow you to access his mobile phone, or if he is getting regular phone calls and getting up and leaving the room to take them so you cannot hear. Check his credit card statements, is he purchasing expensive gifts? Has he taken a sudden interest in his appearance, dressing well, shaving all the time, look his best, getting his hair done, purchasing new clothes? - the list could be endless. However, before you jump to conclusions, talk to your husband about it or otherwise you could hire a private detective to follow him, then you would know for sure.

Answer 7

i am not married but i know wat can work now as a wife that is a serious question to be askin now if u should stop all the things u do for him like make his bed have his breakfast prepared in the mornings clean up afta him u get where i am goin if he does not hav a problem wit that then there is definitely anotha woman if not and he argues n goes on n it sems as though he means it u r just being too insecured botu ur man all the best i hope this helps

Answer 8

Instincts are usually right. Do rule out stress at work or something else going on for him emotionally though before accusing. Less frequent sex doesnt always mean he's having an affair, stress, worry, and simple tiredness can also send him off the boil.

Answer 9

question him about where he as been and who with tell him its out of interest your just trying to make conversation! ask him again in a couple of days he will slip up if he as told a lie cause men cant remember everything to a t where as us woman take every little bit of detail in and use it at a later date. he will smell of perfume or feminine sprays, wont be able to look you in the eye, will be protective of his mobile phone, look hot and flustered can`t wait to get out the door and is in a grump when he gets home, will wont to jump in the bath/shower before you can say any thing, turns is phone of when with another woman etc etc if in doubt follow him, if he says hes going to a certain pub go there and see if hes there and who with, if hes not there ask if he as been in carry a picture if you want to be certain if he hasn't been there then sit and wait for a while see who he walks in with and if not that pub check the others that he drinks in if its really that bad don't bother asking him just do your self a favour and leave.

Answer 10

If they start coming home later every night, if they arent into making love as often, or if they insist on taking a shower right when they get home but the most common is if when you say i love you they dont respond you.. check their phone logs if they keep calling the same number call it, check credit card bills see if they are buying stuff for a woman that they dont give you.. or if they are going to a hotel.. or ask them and if they dont look you in the eye or say dont you trust me than they are more than likely messing around.. lots of luck.. happy holidays..

Answer 11

you don't know unless you have firm evidence, the guessing game is not going to help at all...that's why ppl hire private investigators...and if you feel that he's been cheating than he probably has...but you can also look for tell tale signs traces of lipstick on his shirt, the smell of perfume, the soap smell as if he's trying to wash away another woman's scent, avoiding your calls when he's not home...but that still is not firm evidence cause he could make up an excuse....firm evidence is what you need without that it's his word against yours.