Drama, Drama, Drama, How do I deal with it all...?

Question

Okay..well I was dating this guy, for a few months, and he eventually told me that he didn't like me anymore, after I left him a voicemail asking for a clothing item, I left at his house, he ven threatned to tell everyone including my friends, including his best friend, whom i was friends with (and she is a female) so the next day, his best friend calls me and invites me to his event , which was weird, because she never calls, actually I hadn't talked to her in like six months.And I got back to her a few days later, and she said that was okay, and to have a nice life, and so now when i see her at school she never speaks, we were walking to the parking lot and she walked behind me the whole time, without saying a thing, but what gets, me is why, is she acting like this, and do you think he told her something about me? Because what I don't get is he said that he would tell everyone my business If I called again, but I never did, i just don't understand it...

see that's the thing, I've tried to call and text messaged her, she will not return my calls, i see her at school, and she acts like she doesn't see me..it's really crazy

I just want to add that I am scared to go to greek parties, or anyhting college, because I fear of running into them..How do I overcome that?

Answer 1

He probably did and three fourths most likely not true. I tell you some people you can not trust. It makes you wonder who's out there sometimes. Blow em all off and don't worry about it. They don't deserve your friendship.

Answer 2

I do want you 2 know everyone goes through drama @ some degree. This kind of thing happens all the time. Write about it in a journal or diary, maybe talk to a live person about it and move on to getting along with other people.Even if you think he told her something about you, that too happens, we are human. Things will get better, some things will get bad again and differently. Your on the right path of growing up. Take care..

Answer 3

***** Please is right ! Get the hell out of the Drama girl and don't worry about it for life is too short for all the Drama so let the Drama kings and Queens do there thing whiel the rest of us have fun laughing at there dum butts and just haveing fun in generall for we have better things to do then worry or deal with the DRAMA, DRAMA, DRAMA.

Answer 4

Maybe he already told them everything and his threatning you was just an excuse for him. You know, if you found out that he told everyone, then when you confront him, he could say "i told you not to call me" or something like that.
Be careful.

Answer 5

the best way is to talk to her and ask her if she knows anything....if she doesn't know about what happened between you and her bestfriend, maybe you can tell her the real story besides you are friends and she might give help for you to overcome the things you went through.

Answer 6

ok first of all you shouldnt be hidding out. if you hide then theyll know they got to you and know that they won. dont hide. get out there go to parties. let them know "hey its ok talk crap, it aint gonna bother me!!" hold your head high. second of all if shes so willing to stop talking to you then she wasnt your friend in the 1st place. lose both of them!! you can find a better friend and a much better boyfriend. good luck and happy hunting!!!

Answer 7

Just dont care what people think and go on with your life. Find more mature people to hang out with.

Answer 8

why waste time on such matters life is short you know expand your mind move on and ignore such going s on

Answer 9

You're correct... DRAMA DRAMA DRAMA!!!

Answer 10

You don't. You roll your eyes and say "****** pleeze".